29F here and partner is 34M
Hi I have been with my partner for 4.5 years… and over the years I’ve noticed that he has some narcissistic traits… even though this is something I’ve never been able too talk too him about. When we first meet, everything was amazing. The “love bombing” stage. After 5 months he proposed to me (which even I thought was sudden). Over the years, I’ve opened up my eyes a lot, also just about finished my nursing degree so maybe life matured is well? He’s also changed so much since his dad has died… he is just not emotionally there anymore, I can’t talk to him about anything emotionally. He’s pushed me away from my family, so my bridges are burnt with the, and he’s also pushed his family away is well. He acts like gods gift too the world when he’s at work or out in public, but completely different with me… I’m so stuck right now and not too sure what to do. We’ve also got 2dogs together, and rent a house together. I know without him I’d be happier, but I’d be lying if I said he’s not my best friend is well 😪