u/Apprehensive-Mud9572

so i just did my statistics paper I was well prepareed alr, like i was expecting 70% above and was confident I studied the whole night Got solid 4 hours of sleep Did recent papers , cleared doubt's and slept stress free

During exam everything was chill, i was solving each questions, except the probability i left the tree diagram one to come back at it, then i came across THE FRIKIN EASIET QUESTION THRU OUT THE PAPER (the sxx sxy ones basically free marks)

And somehow i couldn't find n(which is basically givinn in the question) To solve the question, i don't know where it got a wrong (it was worth 8ish marks combined) i randomly started deriving formulas to figure out where the hell n ، too bad i was scribling all over the paper, the equations where everywhere and i lost it, all my confidence from that and i only had 30 min left, before this i was confident i was gonna do all ofe em

But that question messed with my head and i struggled and doubted my next last two questons and i ended up leaving some questions and i got wrong answers.. i checked later. ( like bro i got standard deviation negative ?? I swear i was pro at solving normal distribution questions)

Idk whats this is, i y'all are thinking its lack of sleep ( i don't think so becs i was honestly fine, and panked last 30 min), i got a similar situation in pure 2, where once ik i was getting one wrrongI LOST MY CONFIDENCE, SCOND GUESS EVERYTHING, SLOWED TF DOWN, LOST MY MIND. Its like the moment i start passing over questions "ill come back to it later since i cant get it rn" it piles up and as Time ends ii just ahhhh gave up.

Now ik ik i didnt prep for these papers good enough, like solving a lot of papers and all bbut i was confident enough to solve em, ikk i wouldve easily solved if i calmed The hell down.

Does anyone go thru this too? Pls any help would be appreciated..im loosing way marks just becs of dumb idek what..

For starters, my family have a very healthy relationship esp with eachother and all. So i have been thinking of getting peoples opinions about this becs i think sometimes im just overthinking or nah

( its alot of reading so pls take ur time)

My mom has alot of medical issues, nth severe alhamdulillah, but like has consistant foot pain for standing alot and doing chores and cooking and all, she was always pretty hard working and active in house chores before marrage aswell. She randomly gets weird hand pain to the point she stops wht shes doing and bares it then goes, then to work right after, its been pretty consistant and she said to my dad alot that she has pending doctor visits she needs to get done ( pending as in she had back pain, foot pain suddenly a muscle is pulled sort of thing) she complains to , sometimes even infront of us, and my dad just ignores it, not entirely but sort of like "ohhh i too u to not work a lot, do some " and sortof just shuts the topic after that.

Now pls before going to conclusion, me and my sibling helps her out, daily chores are divided in us (vacumme, mopping, laundry, washing dishes and allatt) but soemtimes its abit innconsistannt due to our exam season rn.

Now finally my dad took her to hospital, and she got alot of deficiencies and a lot more mediciness. mom was complaining at the dinner only if he could've taken her earlier we could've sorted it out and all and dad went back with same argument, i stepped in becs im old enough to see the problem here and wanted to speak up.

I went in and told "bro don't delay her medical stuff and esp at her age rn" sortof way and dad went all out on us, "y r u telling me this? I too her not to work alot and its on u guys too u guys don't help her, she has to i eeen told her to exercise and rest'".

(Me and my dad have a really good relationship we share everything and all)

I was pissed becs i clearly told we r doing it.. okay, but this isssue is not on us, its on u to take her on time, not make her wait thru pain and all.

We went back and forth until i shutup ( it wasnt like an argument argument, he knows very well i don't hold back in these matters and all), he just went bad on us, not helping her and all, and i faced him a look of 'ugh u aren't getting it are u?' and then he stepped away.

The point is alhamdulillah we r financially able not to delay these things, its just that this had happens many many times now, he doesnt takes moms medical stuff srsly until she pass out or is in bed. The had a rough Time in early marriage but they love each other ths for sure, but there are things my mom tells about my dad that pisses me off so much that i would never marry a guy like that. To summarize, he is an absolute best father, but not a good husband. Becs i have noticed stuffs, talked with him but these things r still there.

He isnt abusive of anything like that, he just doesn't payes attention too these type of things when its on my moms, like one Time we and dad were discussion on how he is teaching cycling to my youngest sib, and my mom under her great said "bachoo ko to sub khud say sikah lay tay hay" it wasn't a jelouse/joking way, but a more disappointing/complainnng way, we heard and me and my sister sided eye eachother.

Honeslty if it was my husband i would've argued and complained until i get it, but for her she told me she tried so many Times that now its pointless. My mom always said he changed alot after kids like became way softer and way chill.

I love my both parents to death and they do same, but these are some things that gets under my skin and i cant stay quite in these. Am i overreacting? I really care about my mom she's alrr on lifelong pillss..

Pls give ur advice. Jazakallah

For starters, my family have a very healthy relationship esp with eachother and all. So i have been thinking of getting peoples opinions about this becs i think sometimes im just overthinking or nah

( its alot of reading so pls take ur time)

My mom has alot of medical issues, nth severe alhamdulillah, but like has consistant foot pain for standing alot and doing chores and cooking and all, she was always pretty hard working and active in house chores before marrage aswell. She randomly gets weird hand pain to the point she stops wht shes doing and bares it then goes, then to work right after, its been pretty consistant and she said to my dad alot that she has pending doctor visits she needs to get done ( pending as in she had back pain, foot pain suddenly a muscle is pulled sort of thing) she complains to , sometimes even infront of us, and my dad just ignores it, not entirely but sort of like "ohhh i too u to not work a lot, do some " and sortof just shuts the topic after that.

Now pls before going to conclusion, me and my sibling helps her out, daily chores are divided in us (vacumme, mopping, laundry, washing dishes and allatt) but soemtimes its abit innconsistannt due to our exam season rn.

Now finally my dad took her to hospital, and she got alot of deficiencies and a lot more mediciness. mom was complaining at the dinner only if he could've taken her earlier we could've sorted it out and all and dad went back with same argument, i stepped in becs im old enough to see the problem here and wanted to speak up.

I went in and told "bro don't delay her medical stuff and esp at her age rn" sortof way and dad went all out on us, "y r u telling me this? I too her not to work alot and its on u guys too u guys don't help her, she has to i eeen told her to exercise and rest'".

(Me and my dad have a really good relationship we share everything and all)

I was pissed becs i clearly told we r doing it.. okay, but this isssue is not on us, its on u to take her on time, not make her wait thru pain and all.

We went back and forth until i shutup ( it wasnt like an argument argument, he knows very well i don't hold back in these matters and all), he just went bad on us, not helping her and all, and i faced him a look of 'ugh u aren't getting it are u?' and then he stepped away.

The point is alhamdulillah we r financially able not to delay these things, its just that this had happens many many times now, he doesnt takes moms medical stuff srsly until she pass out or is in bed. The had a rough Time in early marriage but they love each other ths for sure, but there are things my mom tells about my dad that pisses me off so much that i would never marry a guy like that. To summarize, he is an absolute best father, but not a good husband. Becs i have noticed stuffs, talked with him but these things r still there.

He isnt abusive of anything like that, he just doesn't payes attention too these type of things when its on my moms, like one Time we and dad were discussion on how he is teaching cycling to my youngest sib, and my mom under her great said "bachoo ko to sub khud say sikah lay tay hay" it wasn't a jelouse/joking way, but a more disappointing/complainnng way, we heard and me and my sister sided eye eachother.

Honeslty if it was my husband i would've argued and complained until i get it, but for her she told me she tried so many Times that now its pointless. My mom always said he changed alot after kids like became way softer and way chill.

I love my both parents to death and they do same, but these are some things that gets under my skin and i cant stay quite in these. Am i overreacting? I really care about my mom she's alrr on lifelong pillss..

Pls give ur advice. Jazakallah