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first surgery done ✅

Yeah that's me in the right corner drilling into a bone 🦴

I recently assisted in an ORIF procedure during my orthopaedic rotation. Alhamdullilah

Felt like sharing it here since it's the first stepping stone for me in the long exhaustive journey to become a surgeon 😷 👨‍⚕️

u/beeandwax — 7 hours ago

Zehn aur dili sukoon

6 years and aj sara din I didn't felt anxious, I didn't overthinked and I didn't felt the pain in my chest like I have been for years!

Pehli dafa I woke up and I felt nothing, it's mid night now and I always used to yearn and overthink but I am so calm and I'm so content right now

I love it! I love the fact that my mind and heart are in sync and in peace! I love my new reality and I love that I gained the light in my eyes back.

Went to the shop and bought myself snacks to treat myself!

Letting go really bought peace within me. This is your sign to let go! Let go of people, let go of problems, let go of whatever it is that's bothering you.

All love 🥰🤍 Please say mashallah and pray for me!

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u/alishbahahmad7 — 5 hours ago

Need Female Friendship in life ASAP

F 24 here. Posting this second time since I didn't clear in the first post that I need only female friends rn in life. I would like to have girls with whom I can talk about life, share routines, rants on daily basis. I am done pretending that I don't care even if I have no one to talk to on daily basis. I need friends. I have family but my siblings live away. I live alone with my parents. I feel the void. I know one day, I would get married and have a partner but until then I would like to grow good friendships. Hit me up if you feel the same!

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u/Next-Effort-2708 — 6 hours ago

Is it just me or

Or you guys feel the same emptiness in life? Like the feeling of having dessert after a meal. I have everything (job, house under construction, car, SOLARRR, time, took my parents to umrah) which people my age want but I don’t feel the satisfaction of achieving anything. I feel like I’m just fulfilling my duties as a son like it’s not a big deal. Even though I’m grateful thankful to Allah because without His mercy nothing would have happened butt i don’t know why i feel this way. I consider myself a failure because I think of myself as someone who has not done something extraordinary. How can I overcome this feeling?

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u/ZealousidealZone8072 — 7 hours ago

I think my husband and I have mismatched sex drives, is this a big deal?

throwaway for obvious reasons NSFW, sorry in advance

me and my husband have known each other for years before marriage. never dated, but as we hit our 20s it was just kindof understood between us, and our families were happy with it too. we hung out a lot and attraction was always there. he wanted to date before nikkah but I said no. after nikkah he tried again, i said let's just wait for rukhsati

anyway few months in now and everything is great. no major arguments or issues except one thing which has been bothering me and i can't talk about this stuff with anyone tbh

our sex life is pretty active already, multiple times a week sometimes multiple times a day even, so it's not like I have low drive or an attraction issue or anytjing like that. im also not restrictive, im up for trying new stuff sometimes

but he wants more. he wants it to go on for longer, wants to switch things up multiple times even after I'm done, always wants to try something new, and he just doesn't get tired at all. but I feel sore after a point and it's physically uncomfortable afterwards

he's never said anything bad about it or made me feel bad because he’s a nice guy but its kinda obvious uska mood off hai lately. hes not angry or rude but just unsatisfied or frustrated I guess. and its nerve wracking because i dont have anything to address but i know its causing him discomfort

we never discussed any of this before marriage obviously. so we weren't aware of this issue. I didn't even think there would be one

ive heard of so many cases of dead bedrooms or guys ending up looking elsewhere because they're not satisfied, and that men are sexual creatures, their sexual needs are important and they can do stuff if unfulfilled (i know this is more an individual or cultural thing but, hes a guy of our culture so) I fully trust my husband and know he's not like that, but the anxiety still eats me up sometimes.

for context we both come from fairly liberal and educated backgrounds so it's not like we're shy or naive about this stuff but i still feel awkward in asking him upfront and idk if this is normal and perfectly okay or if it can raise concern

Ig im asking if anyone dealt with a drive difference like this? How is it handled.. does it end up becoming a long term issue or is it just something you live with? wld appreciate any insight

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u/Strawberryryyyyy — 6 hours ago

Now he gonna say all girls are gold diggers 😂

I dont know why he thought I was a girl, and even when I mentioned it clearly, he didnt catch that so I just decided to play a little. And from now on he probably will slander about women that all girls are just after money lmao 😂

u/Lonely-Purple-5598 — 8 hours ago

PSA: Comment bhejke delete kyun karte ho, aur meri bari behnain meri property nahi ke unka rishta doon, aur unmain se koi bhi aik apko akele hi zinda garh degi aap aik dafa address toh bhejain apna.

u/Ashraf_Zak — 9 hours ago
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Viral Clip Sparks Calls for Investigation After Man Claims to Be BSF Soldier

A disturbing video circulating across social media platforms has triggered widespread condemnation after an individual claiming to be a member of the Indian Border Security Force (BSF) openly admitted to carrying out fatal operations against Muslims in Jammu and Kashmir.

The viral clip captures a live-streamed video chat between a Pakistani content creator and an individual who claims to be actively deployed in a remote forested area.

During the conversation, the host explicitly questioned the individual about his actions, asking, "How many? Tell me. Two Muslims?"

The man responded directly, claiming involvement in multiple killings: "Three, I and two." He then went on to describe the setting and the alleged methodology behind these operations.

"We are in Kashmir… in a forest, like a rainy forest and dark night," the man stated on camera. When questioned about the legality and justification of these actions, he openly admitted to fabricating threats: "We pretend that he is a terrorist, so we kill them."

When pressed for further details about his identity, the individual disclosed his unit and rank, stating, "We are the lowest rank, like BSF, Border Security Force."

The exchange took an even darker turn when the host asked about the motive behind these actions. The individual did not hesitate to express deep-seated religious animosity, stating:

"There is a reason, because without a reason we can't kill any Muslims… I like to kill Muslims… the whole world is white, not Muslims."

As the host challenged the gravity of these admissions and demanded that the individual show his face clearly to the camera, the man became defensive, attempted to obscure his appearance, and eventually terminated the video connection.

The footage has sparked widespread backlash online, with social media users, human rights advocates, and viewers calling on Indian defence authorities and law enforcement agencies to launch an immediate investigation. Commentators have urged officials to verify whether the individual is indeed an active-duty BSF member or an impersonator deliberately attempting to fuel communal tensions.

u/SlayJarr — 11 hours ago