u/Dull-Shopping1439

Assalamualaikum.

Hope all of you are doing fine. So I just got the delivery of my first car on Friday Alhamdulillah, and I want to get it registered as soon as possible. The issue is that I am currently in Karachi while the car is in Islamabad. The car was received by my father as my family is there.

Now how do I get it registered while I am here? Or should I wait for a week as I will be getting home on Friday Insha'Allah. The issue with waiting is that Eid Holidays are coming up and if I get some stuff done on Saturday, I would have to wait for possibly another whole week because of the Eid leaves.

Also, can you let me know the procedure?

JazakAllah.

Height & Weight: 5'6" (166cm) / 62 kg

Location: Based in Islamabad. Currently working in Karachi. Basically from Kashmir

Accommodation: Rented

Education: Bachelors in Aeronautical Engineering

Income Source: Military R&D

Marital Status: Single

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are. Sunni Muslim.

I am fairly religious. I try to keep Allah first in all my decisions. Alhamdulillah. I also try to understand what the Qur'an and Sunnah tells us instead of blindly following the "Cultural Islam" that is prevalent here.

I am regular in my obligations (prayers, fasts and zakat) and although I haven't had a chance to go to Umrah yet, I would love to go there with my wife Insha'Allah.

Hobbies & Interests

I love stories; anime, books, comics, video games, D&D campaigns; anything that pulls me into a world. Just hook them into my veins. I’m not into non-fiction though: (a) stories of famous people are often exaggerated, and (b) stories of everyday people tend to be too heartbreaking. So let me have my heroes who struggle, fall, and rise again.

I do Calisthenics. Used to be overweight, am now skinny but building muscle.

I love tech and I love building stuff. In my family it is normally me they turn to if something is broken. I may or may not be thinking about building elaborate Rube Goldberg machines all the time.

I love football. Drive to Survive got me into Formula 1 because of the drama, stayed because of the tech. My love of stories has also lead me back into the childhood obsession of Pro Wrestling as well.

I look younger than I am, when I am clean shaven (as I normally am), people mistake me for being 5-6 years younger than I am. This might seem like a problem now, but wait till we are old. 😉

My main source of entertainment is Dropout (FKA College Humor). Those who know, know.

I like to have my own opinion on everything but I also admit straight forward if I don't know something. But you can be sure that I will be back with a binder of my research on that matter.

I like to cook and I try to help my mother around the house whenever possible. I pride myself in being called her most "Suggarh beti"(can be translated to helpful daughter, I guess).

In terms of MBTI, I am an Architect (INTJ) and my Love Language scores are: Quality Time - 83%, Physical Touch - 83%, Acts of Service - 75%, Words of Affirmation - 42% and Receiving Gifts - 8%. So, in short my perfect evening would be solving puzzles or building something together.

I am always fascinated by perspective. Not the artistic kind but the personal one. How people looking at the same thing see different things somehow. Like how the same thing can be celebrated in one area and hated in the other.

Family Details

Father is a Government Employee and mother is a home maker. I have two younger sisters, one is a dentist and married. And one is in university.

Requirements for a Partner

I would prefer someone working as my job often has no fixed hours. I wouldn't want my wife to stay home, alone with nothing to do in an area where she may or may not know anybody. Not good for her mental health.

I’ve always been drawn to the story of the Prophet (PBUH) and Khadijah (RA) — her belief in him, her support, her strength. That’s the kind of partnership I hope for.

I know I can’t expect someone exactly like her when I am nowhere near the Prophet (PBUH) — but we can both try, and Allah rewards the effort, not the outcome.

What I’ve learned from observing marriages — in both real life and media — is that most problems stem from poor communication. Sometimes it's silence, sometimes it's involving too many outside voices.

I believe in “us vs the world,” not “me vs you.” If something is wrong, I want to be the first to know, and I’ll offer the same honesty in return.

The Qur’an only includes one story about marriage ;  of Musa (AS), and the most powerful lesson from it, for me, is honesty. He told Shuayb (AS), his father-in-law everything openly. That’s what I’ll try to bring into my marriage, and it’s what I’d hope for in return.

Marriage, to me is a partnership, a means to success in this life and the hereafter, the Qur'an says, "Your spouses are a garment for you as you are for them", to me that means hiding each others' weaknesses and making each other look good. To bring out the best in each other and to iron out the kinks. I just want that. And to be sure, I would do the same.

Deal Breakers

Lack of trust

Hypocrisy

Lack of Accountability

Disinterest in Spiritual Growth.

Preferred Family Setup:

I was raised in a joint family system, and while those can be messy, ours worked. We're close-knit and supportive.

While my future family would likely be based elsewhere, as an only son I carry the responsibility of caring for my parents in their old age. This is my duty, not my wife's — but practically, it may mean they'll live with us at some point in the future.

Do You Want Children?: Yes but after atleast a year.

Timeframe for Marriage: Ideally within the year.