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Right now, I'm honestly shocked and speechless like i was looking through some Karachi communities (not gonna mention the name of that specific community), I came across people who were literally talking about swapping their partners and much more. It's really disturbing to see how far some minds have gone. It makes me sad to think that people have forgotten about death and even the punishment of the grave.
About Me
Assalam-o-Alaikum. I am a 21-year-old Sunni Muslim woman from Karachi. I belong to a Punjabi family. I have completed Intermediate education(was doing graduation but left in the 4th semester due to some issues) and hold diplomas in Early Childhood Care & Education (ECCE) and Montessori Directress training.
I would describe myself as emotional, family-oriented, respectful, caring, and someone who values honesty, mutual respect, and Islamic principles. I believe marriage is a lifelong commitment built on trust, understanding, and compatibility. I prefer a simple lifestyle and appreciate good character over material things.
Basic Information
Age: 21
Height: 5'1"
Marital Status: Single (Never Married)
Location: Karachi
Religion: Islam
Maslak: Sunni
Ethnicity: Punjabi
Family Background
Father: Private Employee
Mother: Homemaker
Siblings: One Brother
Interests & Hobbies
In my free time, I enjoy watching movies and TV series, trying different foods, and exploring new places to eat. I'm a foodie and always excited to discover good food. I also enjoy long drives, especially at night, and love spending time by the sea. One of my favorite things is visiting the beach at night and enjoying the peaceful atmosphere. I also have an interest in horse riding and enjoy adventurous activities.
A Little More About Me
I value family, respect, honesty, and meaningful conversations. While I enjoy simple things in life, I also appreciate fun experiences, good company, and making lasting memories with the right person. I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, kind, family-oriented, and genuinely seeking a halal, long-term marriage.
Deal Breakers: Casual relationships, time pass, smoking/drinking, disrespectful behavior, dishonesty, non-serious intentions regarding marriage, and anyone unwilling to involve families in the process at an appropriate stage.
What I Am Looking For
A practicing Muslim Sunni man
Age: 23–30 years
Never married
Based in Karachi
Punjabi or Urdu-speaking family background will be a plus point.
Respectful, responsible, family-oriented, and genuinely interested in marriage
If you are serious about marriage and believe we may be compatible, feel free to reach out with a brief introduction about yourself and your family background.
I am a 21-year-old muslim female. When I was around 10 or 11 years old, I was unintentionally exposed to inappropriate videos because someone in our home used to watch them. That exposure made me curious and attracted me toward such content from a very young age. I never really understood what being sexually aroused meant at that age, but over time watching those videos became a habit.
Later, I sincerely repented to Allah and completely stopped watching them. When I was 18, one of my friends told me about female masturbation. Somehow, I ended up trying it and felt a sense of relief afterward. At that time, I genuinely did not know whether it was right or wrong. After that, I would occasionally do it whenever I felt strong urges.
For the past years, I have researched the topic deeply and came to believe that it is a sin. Since then, I have been trying very hard to stop. Sometimes I can go two or three months without doing it, but at other times the urges become so intense that I struggle to control myself. I pray all five daily prayers, read the Quran sincerely, ask Allah for forgiveness, make a lot of dua, and even fast. Despite all of this, the urges do not completely disappear.
I have tried fasting as well, but sometimes I still experience strong urges at night and find it difficult to deal with them. Before I understood the seriousness of these matters, I was also close to committing a much bigger sin, but I truly believe that Allah protected me and saved me from it. Alhamdulillah, I was able to avoid it.
However, I still carry a lot of guilt and sadness. I genuinely want to improve myself, overcome these urges, and become a better Muslim. I keep asking Allah for help, but I feel lost and do not know how to completely free myself from this struggle. Please help me.
So, if we skip how our conversation started and all those details, what I'm thinking about now is whether we would actually look good together. He also has a bit of a hair-thinning issue. For example, I told him that he should start going to the gym, and he immediately said, "Okay, I'll do it." In fact, he usually says yes to whatever I suggest. But the reality is that you only truly get to know a person after marriage, right?
I know everyone is probably going to say that I'm considering him because of money, but that's not the case. What I really liked was the care, affection, and respect he showed me.
We haven't been talking for a very long time it's only been about a week but I'm wondering whether this would be the right decision. The reason I'm confused is that he treats me very well and listens to me. Whenever I say something, he takes it seriously and tries to do what makes me comfortable.
Right now, he treats me amazingly, but I still don't know why I feel a little confused.