I can’t tell if what my cousin did actually counts
I recently came to the realization of how my cousin used her influence and power on me was not okay. Especially when I was 13. During summer 2021 me and my girlfriend (family friend) at the time were at my cousins house. All three of us were alone in the living room listening to music. I don’t remember how we got to the topic but my cousin Julianna kept asking what it felt like to make out. Feeling pressured and reluctant me and my girlfriend did not want to kiss in front of her. but she constantly tried to persuade us into it. She didn’t think the first kiss was good enough and made us kiss again. Afterwords she made us describe it to her. Not only this but she would ask invasive sexual questions about masturbating to me and my girlfriend until we answered. The whole time being uncomfortable and afraid of what she might do or say to others. She had this habit and still asks these things on occasion but what makes it all unsettling is the comments. On two notable occasions she has called me attractive especially saying I look like her celebrity crush. This on its own isn’t much but she made a statement that she would date me if I was not related to her and if I was a man. She still scares me and knows how much control she has over me as she is manipulating and intimidating.