u/Appropriate_Sea8841

Hi just after some advice! Just found out that I am pregnant, excited but nervous as miscarried last year at 8 weeks. I am wanting to go for an early viability scan and as my boyfriend works away, I invited my boyfriend’s mum. However, she is adamant that I shouldn’t get an early scan as it is going to put the baby at risk and I think she is insinuating that is why I miscarried last time. She has spoken to my boyfriend and told him to tell me, but I really want to go and check everything’s ok. But then if I miscarry again, I’m scared she’ll say it’s my fault because of the scan. What can I do?