u/Appropriate_Top9039

My FIL kissed my baby on the lips. He came to visit from another state, and he was already warned not to kiss baby, but he did it anyway, which really bothered me. He said, “i can’t help it, the baby is so cute.” I always worry about my baby catching cold sores, so I don’t even kiss my baby myself. How do I move on from this, because it’s really bothering me so much? And what is the chance my baby could catch a cold sore from this? I don’t know if my FIL has herpes or ever had one all I know is that he is 68 years old I’m just extremely worried I’ll mention to pediatrician on 2 weeks but until then I’m really worried and need advice

I don’t know if I’m overreacting or if I should just be appreciative. I’m just a super sentimental person, and I love being a mom, and I wanted something special for my first Mother’s Day. I would’ve loved a picture frame of
My baby and I or anything that included my baby. He gave me the title of being a mom after 3 miscarriages and I wanted something to keep forever but the gift my husband got me ruined my day it was a massage mat from Amazon because “you’ve been wanting a massage.” Like, why did that gift make me wanna cry…