u/Arcaris1313

Guys, it's a dating sub. Not a pick up sub.

The vast majority of women aren't going to be impressed by all the pickup threads. Be normal. Be a personable person. Have a conversation and be sociable. Be interesting. Talk about your hobbies.

What's the point of reddit dating if you just want to pick people up? Use tinder for that where people actually want to hook up.

The only thing you're going to be successful in with these kinds of threads is being blacklisted by people here.

Some of us would like not all the women to be further pushed away from weirdos on the internet.

Please, dudes, let's be better than this.

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u/Arcaris1313 — 4 days ago

34M4F Any people who are okay with not doing something every day?

It's fantastic that people have things they enjoy or things they want to do. Dating apps show the best of people's lives, but not what they do on a normal, everyday basis.

So i just want to throw myself out there for people who looking for someone to grow old with. We aren't always going to do something fancy or exciting every day. Of course I still want to have those moments.

Being happy with random banter, showing one another a stupid "Am I the Asshole Post" where we both agree or disagree.

Enjoying our individual hobbies or dabbling in hobbies together.

Although i'm not sure how successful this sub is but it can't be worse than dating apps at this point.

Shoot your shot. We can chat if we vibe we can make plans for an escape room, cafe or something you might like?

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u/Arcaris1313 — 8 days ago