r/vancouverdating

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42 Vancouver [f4m] looking for connections

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. whether it’s friendship or romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about that and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!

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u/lsweet5298 — 6 hours ago

A long shot... hoping the girl from Momo Factory downtown sees this

I'm truly afraid but I'm gonna give it a shot.

i visited this restaurant today and i met you ( if u are reading this by any chance). we had a totally awkward convo at the beginning and only god knows why i thought u were from nepal but we talked bout our respective background and turned out we were from same region (Doaba).

i was too shy and too afraid to even ask your name but i couldn't keep my eyes of you. the mojito u served me was one of the best drinks i have ever had.

i don't know if I'm sounding creepy or afraid and i don't what else to say, But i really hope you see this and this post reaches you if god wants.

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u/dontbeachunt — 22 hours ago

26f shooting my shot

Long shot but on July 4, I was on the millenium line and this guy wearing peach pit shirt and converse was superrr cute. Wondering if they’re single lol hopefully they see this

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u/girl_fiery — 21 hours ago

37 M EAST Van 4 Thick / BBW

A little about me:
Born and raised in Vancouver, but I’ve lived and traveled enough to know what I actually want now instead of just what I’m supposed to want. I’m analytical, I notice things most people don’t bother mentioning, and I usually say the right thing at the right time (usually).

I lead with communication and care. If you can’t laugh with me, this probably won’t work — a genuinely wicked sense of humor is non-negotiable on my end.

Passionate when it matters, spontaneous in the best moments, and yes — I’ve got stamina and the sense to use it well

What I’m looking for:

Open and honest here — could be something ongoing, could be a situationship, could be something we figure out the name for later. Not chasing a label, chasing something that actually feels good and is honest about what it is.

One thing about me most people don’t find out right away:
I’m genuinely handy with tools and pretty creative when it comes to fixing things… and highly fashionable

I’ll be surprised for a single message…

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u/spinkilla — 1 day ago
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42 Vancouver [f4m] looking for new connections

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. whether it’s friendship or romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about that and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!

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u/lsweet5298 — 1 day ago

Boating dates 🚤

Boating dates 🚤 m4f

Hey there! I'm 28, and the water is definitely my happy place. I'm looking for someone to join me out on the local lakes or the ocean around the Lower Mainland this summer. Bonus points if you like dogs—my little pup, Mable, comes with me on most outings. Let's get something fun planned for the sunny weather! ☀️

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u/Stinky_pinky42 — 1 day ago

53 F4M North Vancouver

Fit active working woman in North Vancouver looking for a local friend. I’m normal and not into any scene. Just hoping to find a nice man my age in a similar position.
I’m blond blue eyes 125lbs fit and into Mountain biking , trail running, skiing, golfing or just relaxing for coffee.

I live near Edgemont and really just want someone local to be friends with first. I don’t want to change my home situation but it would be great to have a local friend.

I do want someone in their 50s though. No young guys looking for fun. A man in a similar situation fit professional and normal.

I can meet for coffee after chatting and sharing pictures and we can explore further from there. I don’t share my cell at all, unless we meet don’t ask.

Ideally you live close to me but for the right man i can travel a bit but I’m not interested in long commutes or it won’t work. Please respond with a bit about yourself and if you are in a similar stand around my age.

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u/Gogoskibunny1972 — 2 days ago

33 M4F Night Owls Who Wants to go for Night Drive!!

Hey, If you’re a night owl who’s still up and feeling restless, I’d love some company for a chill night drive.

Windows down, good music or conversation, city lights turning into quiet roads just cruising, talking about whatever, and seeing where the night takes us. Could end with grabbing late snacks or parking somewhere nice to stargaze and chat more.

Nothing complicated, just relaxed vibes and seeing if the energy flows. If you’re down for a spontaneous night adventure, message me and tell me what kind of night you’re in the mood for.

Bit about me I’m 5’11” with curly dark hair, warm brown eyes, and strong shoulders, vancouver DT.

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u/Kindly-Tackle1992 — 2 days ago

Where’s my gae ppl at? 28 F4F

Asian femme looking to meet another femme.

Based on the island, it’d be great if you’re from here too, it’ll make it easier to hang out, grab coffee, go on adventure, or just enjoy each other’s company.

Happy to swap photo first. And if we vibe, let’s see where things go. 🙏🏻🤍 send me a message!

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u/Prestigious-Fig-7183 — 2 days ago

40s Provider looking Asian girlfriend.

I'm in my 40s, own my own place, two cars and like to travel. Looking for an Asian girlfriend who I can take care of.

You can live rent free, expenses covered, use my cars etc.

I will pay a deposit before first meet to build trust.

Single. Never married.

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u/cheesyusernames — 2 days ago

41 f4m I would some company

Recently out of a long relationship and looking to slowly dip my toes back into the water.

Looking for someone close to my age (10 years up or down) to spend some time with. Not trying to rush anything and want to take my time getting to know someone.

I love nature, photography, the beach, my kids, and music. Hopefully we can have some things in common. :)

About me: I’m curvy with brown hair and blue eyes.

DMs open if you want to chat.

Thanks!

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u/PlayfulMidnight0930 — 3 days ago

34 F4A looking to find someone to connect with.

Hi! Over the last few years I've devoted myself to studying and working and while my life is pretty fulfilling as it is, I'd love to share it with someone around my age (3-4 years up-down) I haven't dated in five years and wasn't really interested so maybe I'm a little rusted in that area. I don't really care about labels for myself, friendship it's important for me to develop feelings and attraction for any gender, I don't really have a type. I like smart and funny people who smell nice.

Stuff about me. I have tons of hobbies, specially artistic ones, I love reading (mostly horror, I do horror-non fiction-horror-classic-horror), watching movies (mostly horror) and writing short stories (currently writing a novel, guess what genre). I like hiking, yoga and do stop motion (hopefully it will be my full time job in the next year or two). Spanish is my mother tongue but I speak English fluently and am comfortable with French. I also love ice creams and walking around the city trying to find the best chocolate brownie. Can you believe they've discontinued the best brownie ever? RIP Pistachio Brownie from Fior Di Latte, you are dearly missed.

It is incredibly hard to be known, specially on the internet. I'm a firm believer of coincidences and connection, but I also love getting to know people. I am an introvert at heart with an extroverted personality, which is a bit of a conundrum for socializing.

I'm looking for someone kind and compassionate who knows who they are or is towards figuring it out. I would love to build something together with the right person. I like dogs and cats and chocolate, obviously not together.

If I don't respond in the next hour is because my hands are full of clay, I didn't think this through jajajaj

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u/SardonicCheese666 — 3 days ago

26 FfM

I'm 26, born and raised in Vancouver, and looking for a genuine long-term relationship. I like to take things slow and let a connection develop naturally. I'm not on dating apps anymore because they just weren't for me.

I work full-time, have my own car, and spend a lot of time at the gym. Outside of work, you'll usually find me hanging out with my dog, going to raves, taking ridiculously long walks, trying new recipes, shopping, or spending time with family and friends.

I'm pretty upfront about what I'm looking for because I don't want to waste anyone's time. Ideally, I'd love to meet someone who's 28–37, over 6'0" (I'm about 5'8"), has a stable career, drives, was born and raised here, will enjoy the occasional rave with me, and is genuinely looking for a committed relationship.

Physical attraction is important to me, and I'd describe myself as conventionally attractive, so I'd like to feel that mutual attraction as well.

If you're kind, emotionally mature, communicate
well, and are actually excited about building something real, I'd love to get to know you.

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u/Ok_Lawyer_7084 — 3 days ago
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32 [M4F] #Canada BC British Columbia Lower Mainland Fraser Valley Anyone else indoors to stay cool the past few days ?

I am definitely a creature of Spring/winter . I don't like sweating up a flood with the muggy weather.

But if I am inside trying to stay cool I might as well put myself out there.

Feeling a lot more confident these days since starting a new job.

Got to love the current job market /S .

(Note going forward I am firmly liberal leaning, I do not tolerate bigotry , homophobia, misogyny, and disrespect to those in the service industry.)

I am also on the east side of the Port Mann Bridge which I know is a dealbreaker for many, so I don't want to mislead anyone .

Not for me , as I do drive, but I know for many its a factor.

(I'd also prefer to talk with people only in BC. I am sure people outside are great, its just the logistics of international travel add up, the size of Canada for interprovince relationships and well the mess in the states right now, dating anyone in the USA right now is not practical currently. )

As stated in the title, 32, 6'4 tall, broad shoulders, bit of a thicker frame (walking now that its cooler in the evenings, plus its nice to disconnect from the devices for a bit ), dark brown hair, hazel eyes, Caucasian.

Attaching photo so you can get a idea what I look like

https://imgur.com/a/JHLCv4p

Work in IT support which is always a interesting field with the stories I could tell.

Interests of mine including reading , video games (sucker for strategy games and RPG's), walking to get in some cardio, video editing, baking and BBQing (and yes if we do become long term I promise to make you sweet baked goods ;) You can see some of what I have made in my other posts) .

Kind of hard to put into words what I am looking for, I think besides having similar ethical and moral lines and having overlap in our interests, I think I want to be sure we feel comfortable with each other.

With my height and broad shoulders, I can come off as intimidating I am fully aware. So I want whoever I may be with to not be scared, its a odd thing to look for I know. But I think its important.

If anyone of this sounds interesting please let me know and I would be happy to talk more.

P.S Just as its come up with some in the past ,I do hope to have kids one day. Whether or not that is feasible in this economy who can say, but I know for many its a deal breaker so I figure I would bring it up early.

u/OriginalTacoMoney — 3 days ago
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42 Vancouver [f4m] looking for new connections

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. whether it’s friendship or romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about that and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!

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u/lsweet5298 — 3 days ago

32 M4F

I’m a 32-year-old Canadian - Polish. I’m pretty easygoing and have a laid-back personality, although I’m definitely a bit shy when meeting new people. Once I get comfortable I enjoy having a good laugh.

I really enjoy walks and checking out different cafés and breweries. I tend to prefer quieter, more relaxed places where you can actually have a conversation, but I’m always up for trying something new and having fun.

Lately I’ve found myself with a bit more free time than usual, so I have been gaming. I have been recently watching Korean shows.

I’m a huge animal lover and always like being around pets, even though I don’t currently have any of my own.

Open to explore and try new things as well!

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u/DMagiicMan — 3 days ago

25 [M4F] LOOKING FOR A GIRLFRIEND TO RUIN MY BALLS

Hey, I’m Canadian born middle eastern mix live in north Surrey. Looking for anyone 20+ who would be interested in a kinky fun relationship or just a kinky experience to knock off the bucket list lol. I’ve only ever paid girls to kick my balls and it has always been transactional, I’m not looking for free kink sessions but I’d love to have my balls abused by a person who actually has a crush on me, that’s hot. Honestly I’m mostly dominant and like to lead when it comes to relationships but I just have this major pain kink. Yah I get it, not that many guys will ask you to fuck their nuts up, but every girl I’ve introduced to this always wanted to try more and found it fun. I’ve never had a bad ballbusting session.

Anyways aside from my kinks I like working out, biking, food, eating, munching, and doing hoodrat shit. Im usually busy as I work a lot but I always make time for the right people.

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u/Popmynutsack — 4 days ago

33F for right wing extremists only

as a wimin I only like right wing and apolitical men, so sick of these lefty Nazi commie Russian Chinese plants infesting the dating pool with these pro human rights arguments. let us do white supremacy dammit.

anyways, only right wing men provide. have you seen leftists? probably spend all their money on community care and nail polish

looking for men with homoerotic obsessions with Joe Rogan and Tucker Carlson only, like real men

I'm a very submissive wimin and seeking a very unsubmissive man, maybe a cop or a soldier

I like right wing because men pay for and provide everything, including safety. and honestly I have too many thoughts and I need a man to think for me

I'm tired of voting and bodily autonomy.

please wine and dine me right wing sirs

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u/cest-tasha — 5 days ago
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To F, looking to explore lighthearted, low-pressure connections...

Hey there!! I’m a 22 year old, 5'11. "former state level basketball player who currently spends his time playing tennis, watchingg F1, and reading novels, yes I contain multitudes". I’ve got great communication skills, which basically means I can carry a conversation way better than Ferrari carries a race strategy. I’m looking for something light, fun, and casual with someone who appreciates witty banter and zero drama. If you can handle high energy, low pressure, and excellent banter, let’s connect.

Edit: Apparently, my post caused a glitch in the matrix. To the guys who flooded my inbox: I’m flattered, but I’m a straight male.

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u/dojamonster_2 — 5 days ago

18 F4M New to reddit! wanna see what this is about

18 Punjabi/Fijian looking for someone around my age to connect with and possibly go on a date or more! Im kind and respectful, cheerleader (graduated now) looking for a relationship and too find someone new. Dont be a creep please, if you think im too young for you, just dont dm. If your looking for more of a one time thing Im open too that aswell as long as your very kind and respectful and dont rush things

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u/Ok-Pirate7027 — 5 days ago