u/OkMess7947

Introverted 27F looking for a mature, grounding pen pal 🎀

I am in the process of navigating a separation from a caregiver dynamic. It's a lot to process and I could really use someone in my corner for support and grounding. Hoping for someone with a mature, steady presence who can offer guidance, encouragement, and a safe space.

Because I’m extremely introverted, a slow and steady build to a friendship is important to me. I would love to find someone to chat with or be pen pals to start and see if we click.

About me: I love colouring, music ( mostly singing and playing the piano, but also love going to see the VSO/orchestra), baking vintage cakes and floral cupcakes, and watching cartoons/movies. While I tend to be a homebody, I also have an outdoorsy side. I enjoy fishing, archery (I shoot a compound), paddleboarding, and I have my RPAL. I am currently in school for psychiatric nursing and will graduate at the end of the year. I can drive, but I definitely thrive in the passenger seat.

If you made it this far and this resonates with you, please send me a 🎀 with an intro.

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u/OkMess7947 — 3 days ago

27F looking for guidance and support in BC, Canada

I am in the process of navigating a separation from a long-term caregiver dynamic. It's a lot to process and I could really use a mature, steady presence in my corner for support, grounding, and encouragement. Someone who can offer guidance and a safe space.

About me: I love colouring, music (mostly singing and playing the piano, but also love going to the orchestra), baking vintage cakes, and watching cartoons/movies. I tend to be a homebody, but I also have an outdoorsy side. I enjoy fishing, archery (i shoot a compound), paddleboarding, and I have my RPAL.

I'm from Vancouver, BC, but contemplating a move to Langley soon. I am hoping to find someone nearby to chat with or be pen pals. If you made it this far, please send me a 🎀 with an intro.

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u/OkMess7947 — 3 days ago

27F need sincere marriage advice

If anyone here has dealt with infidelity in marriage/relationships and wouldn't mind lending an ear, I could really use some wisdom and advice.

I have reason to believe that my husband (32M) may have cheated on me in the beginning of this year.

Currently, our housing is owned by my family and he is paying rent to my mother as well as providing for me financially. I am currently in school (although my mother is paying tuition) and not working. I will be graduating in December 2026 so I expect to be a nurse by January 2027.

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u/OkMess7947 — 7 days ago