r/IntrovertsChat

34 female looking for friends

Been divorced almost a year and just looking for people that have gone through similar I’m also a gamer and a gym goer so if any of those peak your interest that shoot me a message. Possibly put a tag line of something interesting so I know you’re not a bot also I’ll try to respond to everyone but no guarantee

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u/CandidCut5403 — 6 hours ago

F lf friends?

Hii! As the title says..

About me: Muslim in asia (gmt+8), unsure about my sexuality (lean more towards female) and i see men for a living (kidding). On my off days, i’m either running errands or i stay at home. I’m on shift work and i work 7-8 days a week before i get a rest hence why i’m mostly at home after i drain my energy for an entire week. I do kdramas. I listen to kpop too. I go to concerts for fun and the rest of it, whatever works.

Looking for friends and if it progresses, maybe? Generally friends works for me!

I do not have an age limit and im open to everyone. No racism, no discrimination, no disrespect! If you don’t vibe with who i am, please do not agree to talk too. Let’s not waste each other’s time :)

I lean more towards F but you’re free to take your shot! Please introduce yourself when you DM. A simple hi/hey is not enough for me to accept your request.

Byebye!

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u/Completebs22 — 8 hours ago

27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD

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u/Jim_Bimby — 5 hours ago

24F looking for new friends ✨

Hello names cat I’m from this crazy country called America 🇺🇸 🦅. But originally from Mexico. I’ve made a post before looking for a good chat between two friends but ended up somehow with either 3 types of people.

  1. The dry texter: it feels like I’m pulling teeth with them. Now I’m a yapper so I try to make my response longish so I can give room for the other person to ask questions or add on but nope I get “sup” “what you doing” “I’m good”. And that’s it’s like please give me something to work with 😭 so if your first message is just “HI” I probably won’t respond back.

  2. The creepy dudes: I knew I would come across a couple guys just because I’m a female on the internet so it was bound to happen but oh Lordy some of you guys are really something. So please guys I’m not that interested in know what gets your motor running

  3. The friendship that could have been: I wont like I’ve been guilty of this once or twice. You ever meet someone and just hit it off and think wow this could genuinely be a good friendship only to end up talking less or get completely ghosted. Yeah not a good feeling. So if I ever did this to you I’m so sorry. I’ve gotten a lot better and still really good friends with people from all over the world.

So please come say hello so we can get to know each other and keep each other company during the day. With the full house I live in I’m always running around but somehow still have time to talk to people 😋 I promise I’ll try to respond back soon, hope to hear from you soon cat 🐈‍⬛❤️

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u/IceNo8194 — 11 hours ago

19F looking for someone to play video games and chill with :)

Hiii , I'm really shy and introverted , and I don't have many friends IRL and would love to make some long lasting friendships !

I love anime , especially demon slayer (love nezuko <3).
I am also a huge nerd about gaming I love genshin impact and my all time favorite would be Marvel rivals (I main Luna snow).
I also do cosplay , I am currently working on a yoruichi one and would love to show some progress if anyone is interested !

Don't hesitate to hit me up !

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u/FewFeedback2332 — 12 hours ago

30M Looking for people with nerdy mutual interests to yap with

Sup!

The auto moderator on this sub doesn't like my usual spiel I put so I'll give you a TLDR and you can check out my other posts on my profile to see if you're interested in me a bit more.

I'm a nerdy mfer from New Zealand. I'm mainly into video games and fantasy/scifi/horror stuff in general, looking for other likeminded nerdy people who are into similar games and media.

I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well.

Hit me with your favourite Souls game lore tidbit in your DM, or tell me your favourite Elder Scrolls race and why. Which DBD killer do you main? Which Final Fantasy is the best?

The music I'm into is mainly 70s/80s stuff, orchestral soundtracks, alternative and pop/electronic shit. I like scary movies, learning about animals and the natural world, doing art sometimes and working out a little.

Please be in your mid 20s at least or older, be chill with LGBTs and know how to take an interest in others because I'll be doin the same for you!

Anyhow, thanks a bunch for reading and I hope to hear from you!

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u/halonethefury — 8 hours ago

No one here wants a friend

I spoke to hundreds of people here.. they don't want any friends.. they say "long term" or "friends forever"

What i understood is,

  1. they're just looking for random people to text for random time in "their" free time

  2. They're looking for gurls

ITS REALLY TIRING ... I PUT SO MUCH EFFORTS, VERY FRUSTRATING

BTW I'm M26

A tiny disclaimer if you wanna DM

I'm looking for friends forever..for lifetime .........I'm not looking for dry chats, people who disappear after a few days, or friendships that end after exchanging a handful of messages. I'd genuinely love to build a lifelong friendship with someone who enjoys putting effort into getting to know each other. I also prefer voice calls over endless texting, and if we become good friends, I'd love to meet in real life someday........

I'm very busy in the day .. i work in IT, I take care of a few animals, i need to visit hospital.. i cook as well... But i never say to anyone "I'm busy' , " i can't talk" .. i take out time for near and dear ones...

So pls text ONLY IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR FRIENDS FOR LIFETIME and not just random chats.. i dont wanna waste your time and my time also

If you are looking for long term friendship.. pls dm (i might not look at comments)

My discord is rayn5783

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u/New-Huckleberry2632 — 1 day ago

40F I'm hoping to find new people to chat to and hopefully I can make some long term friends

Hi everyone, I'm Jess, 40F from the UK. I'd like to meet some new people that I can chat to and hopefully get on with long term.

I'm very introverted and so find it hard meeting new people in person, and I've been feeling quite lonely lately so I thought it would be good to try finding new people to talk to, and maybe see if I can make some long term friends.

In my spare time I enjoy some relaxing gaming time, watching a movie and I also love exercising to keep fit.

I love talking about F1, cars, and gaming, and I'd love to chat to someone into any of these.

My DM's are open if anyone is interested by any of this and would like to get chatting. I'm also on discord as JessCrawford86.

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u/JessCrawford86 — 1 day ago

🫶 Quiet Soul, Big Personality

Heyyy! 😊 I’m Izzy, a 25-year-old introvert from Colorado! 🌄💚

I’m usually pretty shy when I first meet someone, so don’t be surprised if I’m a little awkward at first. 😂 Give me some time to get comfortable and suddenly I’ll have 500 random things to tell you.

I’m looking for genuine friendships and people who enjoy good conversations, silly jokes, random topics, and getting to know each other naturally.

I may be quiet, but I’m definitely not boring. 😭😂

If you’re looking for someone new to talk to, feel free to say hi! 🌸

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u/MusicianWhole847 — 1 day ago

22f looking for long term online friends

Hello, I'm looking for some people to chat with that share the same interests as me. I’m from the usa, cst timezone. Some of my interests and the things i like to talk about are gaming, anime, manhwa and manhua, manga, kdramas, kpop, nail art, skincare, cats, music , fashion, fitness, and food.
I can be a bit of a slow replier sometimes, so if you're looking for someone to reply immediately all the time then that's not me. Reply times isn’t something i really care about though, feel free to reply back whenever you want. I'm also okay with vc sometimes. I don’t really like toxic, rude or clingy people.
I play games a lot so finding people to game with would be nice as well. I mostly play on ps5 and mobile but i do have a few games on pc. Some of the games i play are outlast trials, overwatch, marvel rivals, fortnite, dbd, phasmophobia, genshin, honkai star rail, roblox, deadlock
I would prefer people around my age (20-25) and also in the us. Please introduce yourself when you DM.

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u/SetSilent7092 — 1 day ago

Send me your favorite ref from The Office

28 F West coast.
Watching the office for the hundredth time. If you’ve seen it what’s your fav quote or moment?

I don’t get out much these days and since I quit partying most of my friends have disappeared :(. I also struggle with bipolar disorder and although medicated, it does make it harder for me to want to even attempt an extroverted life.

Interests include:
Lifting
Crafting
Hiking
Fishing
Camping
Baking

If any of this interests you feel free to reach out!

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u/theonlyjohnwayne — 1 day ago

27F EU hoping to make long term friends! :)

hi all ! im 27 , from europe + id like to meet people who like talking every day (i get attached quick), and maybe we could call once we both get comfortable with each other ! I have a v, vvv small circle irl and would love to make long term friends <3

Im into gaming, manga, anime literature and horror movies !

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u/dareth-shiral-dalen — 1 day ago

31F #UK - Slightly clingy gal looking for someone to yap away the days with 😊

Another day.. Another cry out into the Reddit void... i think I find someone to vibe with, and then they just disappear back into the darkness. I'm honestly starting to think finding a genuine friend is an impossible task that somehow turns into more of a chore. That's not to say i haven't met some genuinely awesome people! It's just things that unfortunately fizzled out. So here I am, yet again searching for my a friend, the kind of friend who loves gaming, voice notes, and random 2am calls where we just chat utter nonsense. And yes, I'm clingy! But not "Hey, I'm outside your house at 2am," clingy or "I want to steal your soul" kinda clingy either.. unless.. 😂👀. I dunno, maybe you're into that? Haha. Jokes aside...

I won't pretend I'm some amazing, incredibly funny person, but I will always have your back, listen to you vent, or try, at the very least, to make you smile. I suffer with anxiety, and that can mean I tend to overthink! Everything 🫠. But i try my best not to let it take over my life. If anything, it's part of me now, and I've just accepted it, lol. So, if you're someone who also suffers from anxiety, then I can try my best to reassure you. Anyways... why do I keep posting? Good question! Honestly? I just want to find someone who gets me, likes the same stuff as me, or at the very least someone who can laugh at my silly jokes. I love banter, but I'll never overstep boundaries.

Gaming is a huge passion of mine, so I'd love to find someone I can share it with. Although reddit seems to keep sending PC gamers my way, which is fine but if you are on PlayStation, then great!. I mainly play Fallout 76 nowadays, but I'm open to other games. The water park simulator also has my attention, and it's quite addictive 😅. I also really love music too. Twenty One Pilots and Oliver Tree are on repeat for me right now, and I'll occasionally listen to Linkin Park, too.

I don't want to make this post too long! Mainly because i feel like a lot of people dont actually read everything, but if you did, then I appreciate you. Anyways, if you feel like we might click, then shoot me a message? Just please include your age and location in your replies so I know the basics, I'm happy to chat to people around my age or a little older. Some random facts about yourself would also be appreciated, like your hobbies, interests etc etc 😊. Oh, and i do personally prefer voice notes to texting, so if you do as well, then awesome.

One finally note before I end this, I'm not interested in nsfw chats, being bullied, or receiving unkind messages, I'm just simply looking for friends, like everyone else in this sub.

Oh, and bonus points if you can recommend a song to me! My Spotify needs something new to have on constant repeat 😂. I'm happy to send one back.

Comments will be ignored as I personally prefer direct messages.

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u/Sonniesoda — 1 day ago

25f sweden hoping to form genuine friendships

Bonus if ur also swedish since i’d really like more potential irl friends !! But elsewhere in eu is absolutely fine (: and be around my age preferably!

Im 25 and quite introverted as well as unemployed due to mental health so i mostly game, read books, sometimes go out 🙂‍↕️ and i like to paint and draw! Currently playing through fallout 3 and finished what i believe to be the main story? I generally love the fallout franchise. I also used to play a lot of marvel rivals and ow and would be down to pick up either again. I love friendslops as well or just getting to know people (: besides that i also love dogs and animals in general

i’d say im friendly and bubbly despite struggling sometimes. Regardless i js would love to talk to people who are interested in becoming friends!! I value emotional intelligence and maturity a lot in people ! And authenticity is great too since i dont rly like to be someone im not either :)

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u/bwbypwp — 1 day ago

F25 let’s be instant friends without the awkward part

Hellooooo
I am looking for cool, nice, funny people to watch movies with or game or yap either over text or vc. I’ve been told I have a nice voice, that’s it’s calming sometimes or sweet bc I giggle a lot lmfao but I just like to laugh. I love horror anything really like movies or shows or games lmfao. I love anime, black clover is my favorite. I play mostly rivals and fort but recently played big walk and it was soooo fun. If you are around my age and from the US (for time zone purposes) dm me! I’m excited to meet you!

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u/Fit-Pressure1991 — 3 days ago

20F looking for someone to spend time with

Hey im a 20 year old girl from the US. College studying software development/IT in my first year. Full time student, and full time teacher (From infants to pre-schoolers)

I own a ps5 only: Dying Light 2, dead island 2, warframe, 2k, Gta, little nightmares lll. Mainly playing warframe these days, gauss and uriel fan.

I like cooking, music, movies, and ofc video games. My favorite color is blue, foods are pizza, pasta, seafood, chinese food, burgers. I like to shop, go out places. Introverted person or big loner in other words, when not at work, have literally 0 friends. Mostly been spending my time playing warframe, very close to mr30. We’re automatic besties if you also play that game.

Just looking for people to talk to and over time become friends. I don’t mind moving else where to chat or voice calling.

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u/Away_Sky7901 — 2 days ago

Hello I'm 19 F looking for genuine connection and friends

I don't have anything to tell because I haven't achieve anything yet but I'm improving doing hardwork I'm student and I love studying I always try to study harder to be in the top but couldn't make it . Sometimes when I don't study I felt lonely like I have no one but when regain my focus I forget everything

It's hard to describe feelings to friends but I have good family . Hoping for some good people and let me tell you I'm not a good texter sometimes bored too and I don't understand GenZ slang even tho I'm GenZ too..

thanks for reading out

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u/Eshu3108 — 2 days ago

M23 Bi just an introverted lonely boy who overthink a lot and would love have a longterm chat buddy [Ger/Eng]

So, I’m mainly looking for guys Gay/Bi/Pan etc. I’m very introverted and much prefer chatting, but in my experience, straight guys tend to get annoyed pretty quickly if you want to chat about guys xd That said, I enjoy chatting about pretty much anything. I’m currently doing an apprenticeship in sales, but I don’t have any friends; outside of work, I’m on my own and usually just at home watching series or gaming. I’m probably not all that exciting, but maybe there are guys out there in the same situation who’d like to build an online friendship—DMs are open.

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u/Respy02 — 2 days ago

29F - *insert witty title that grabs your attention here*

I don’t have the energy to think of something creative lol 29F US here who’s looking for good chats with some fellow introverts to pass the time. Here are few things about me…

-Love music, plays bass, not in a band

-Works in STEM (lab tech)

-Love sports (soccer, hockey, basketball, football), don’t play any

-Favorite season is summer

-Apple>pumpkin spice (like the foods)

Reach out and let’s see if this chat will last more than the night!

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u/1flintstonespushpop0 — 2 days ago

32M, California, Hump Day Has Me Struggling

It’s Wednesday, which means we’ve officially made it to the middle of the week… and somehow that feels like an accomplishment.

I’m at work, running on caffeine, sarcasm, and the rapidly disappearing will to be productive. At this point I’m just trying to be a functioning member of society 😂

Im into gaming, photography, camping, road trips, the outdoors, working on cars, and finding excuses to disappear into the mountains. I’ve also got two dogs, so obviously dog tax is available upon request.

Happy Hump Day. We’re halfway there. Probably😂

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u/Cryptframe56 — 2 days ago