r/IntrovertsChat

I'm 19 (F) , I'm not a very interesting person but I love to talk to people but I can't because the introverted side of me is always dominant.

I have nothing much to say about myself nor I have achieved anything big to flex but I'm improving also I don't have a lot of hobbies some are watching movies, listen to songs sometimes cook

And I really want to learn guitar.

Looking for some genuine people and one thing too I'm not good at asking questions or in texting so texting to me can feel bored .

Hi everyone, I just am so tired of trying to make and keep a friend I could scream I think. Lately my mental has been down the drain and it’s only spiraling unfortunately. I’ve gotten so tired of the same old questions about myself and I’ve just started composing and sending an introduction abt myself to people and that’s for some reason met with criticism. I just can’t win, not with my own mind, not with people in my life, not even with people in the internet. I just want a kind soul to befriend. I’ve become so reclusive and hesitant and it’s starting to take a toll on me. I am a nice person, I swear. I’m just tired of being trapped alone.

HI there! Jus looking for convos. Nothing too intense, jus chill chats at our own pace

My social battery comes with a warning label, so if you also disappear and come back later like nothing happened, we’ll get along jus fine

English isnt my strongest language 💀 and my French is still a work in progress, so I appreciate a bit of patience. Id honestly rather solve math problems than deal with grammar. My finest hobbys accidentally burning water. Married men or i a r? Ill kindly pretend I didnt see your message. My respect settings jus have a strong filter lol

If youre into engineering, feel free to message me. I might learn from you. I barely survived it myself nd trying to find my way into the industry. Include your age in your msg my reply button only works when theres an age

student looking strictly for online friends around my age. down for language exchange or study/language learning buddies. huge music nerd into jazz, art rock, classical, rap, soul, rnb, folk and always looking for new sounds. into fiction books, bike rides, diving in a random rabbit hole for hours for no reason, asian dramas (wuxia/historical), cozy games, horror game lore, and terribly attempting to learn guitar again. send a message or a song swap if you want to chat!

I’m(M28) busy with work most days, so I don’t really notice it. But on my days off, it hits me—no plans, no random calls, no chats, nobody asking what I’m doing.

I usually end up scrolling reels just to pass the time. And sometimes I think about how nice it would be to have even one person I could call, whether I need help with something or just feel like talking.

I don’t want a huge friend circle. Honestly, one or two people who genuinely show up would be enough.

Hii hii! 🎃 Happy almost Pumpkin Day! I’m Taiga, although I’m totally accepting of cute nicknames. I’m mainly here looking for a really close friendship the kind where we can be comfy little gremlins together, play games for way too many hours, send each other stupid memes, and just generally become each other’s favorite person.

I’m definitely more of a few-close-people type than a “I have 500 friends!” type. I somehow attract people pretty easily, but having a million eyes on me at once makes my brain go windows shutdown noise. I’m honestly pretty introverted and much happier with a small circle of people I genuinely click with.

I’ve had a couple rough breakups recently, so I’d really love to meet someone new and make some good memories. I’m open to seeing where things go, whether that’s friendship, besties ..

As for me, I’m into art, gaming, cooking, writing stories, nature, animals, plants, and going on little walks when I’m not glued to a screen. My current gaming rotation includes New World, League, Destiny, and Pokémon, so if you enjoy any of those, you already have a suspiciously good excuse to message me.

And yes, there’s a bit of a funny backstory to the whole “cute girl who used to act like a boy” thing. 😂 I’m from Montana, so growing up I was basically raised on horses, dirt, and the general lifestyle of “you’re getting back on that horse whether you like it or not.” 🐎

Because of all the horseback riding and growing up around that kind of environment, I was definitely a little tomboyish and used to act much more like one of the boys. Somewhere along the way, though, I realized I’m actually just a girl who happens to have a bit of cowgirl energy mixed in. So if you’re expecting a delicate little princess, you may instead get someone who can talk about horses, get covered in dirt, and then immediately go home and draw something ridiculously cute.

Basically: Montana girl + gamer + artist + streamer + horse girl + certified cozy menace.

Hey. I haven't quite figured out making friends as someone in their late twenties. I'm hoping to get in touch with like-minded people with similar interests. I'd like to expand my social circle, and hopefully develop a "best friend" connection with someone, over time. I'd like to experience being someone's best friend. Casual friendship is alright, there's a time and a place for it—but casual friendships where you only check in on each other here and there eventually feel more like acquaintanceship to me instead of true friendship. If you're someone who's looking for a deeper connection with someone, on an emotional and intellectual level.. and you're a little bit on the stranger side of society, I'm looking for you! I'm not typically interested in small talk. I want to have meaningful conversations, and also shoot the shit with someone.

To describe my personality briefly, I'm passionate about what's important to me. I don't like to fret over the small shit. I'm childfree, atheist, politically left-leaning, black, plus-size. I just want to find my like-minded, lonely, introverted, brooding weirdos, if any are out there. I'm tired of pretending to upkeep the false positivity that most people require to want to befriend someone. If you don't like pessimistic optimist energy, and need someone to be just chipper all or most of the time, please stay clear of me. I'm just vibing to the beat of my own drum. I'm typically lighthearted, curious and easygoing. Some of my interests include tech, video games, reading, writing, horror, anime, true crime, history, science, photography and traveling. Music-wise, I'm very into alternative/indie pop, electronic, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B. I like to hold multiple perspectives, and generally be open minded, although of course not perfectly.

Basically, if you're someone who is unafraid to be themselves, but also the introverted, introspective/brooding type who has a little bit of an edgier side and likes a darker sense of humor.. I'd be absolutely pleased to become genuine friends, lol. Hit me up if any of this resonates, ignore me if it doesn't. Tell me a bit about yourself. I'm looking for people who are near my age (26-35—not younger, not older.)

If you want someone who is chipper and positive all or most of the time, decidedly steer clear of me.

Please: No married/partnered men, and/or men with offspring.

Maybe include the phrase "Magdalena Bay" somewhere in your message, so I know you've read this post fully. (It's a band, not a place.)

I won't respond to low effort, or copy/pasted messages, so please don't spam my inbox with with those.

I'm kind of eccentric, and don't care to be like anyone else or conform to societal expectations (aka please don't harass me just because you don't like something I've written in this post. It's a waste of both of our energy.)

I look forward to getting to know you. ✧.*

26 year old girl here, trying to expand my horizons. Adulting has mostly been responsibilities and surviving, so I don't really get much time to go out. I figured online interactions are the next best thing. At least I get to meet people, hear different perspectives, and learn something new.

Not much interesting about me. I don't have many hobbies. I doom scroll and overthink, which apparently takes up most of my free time. I love pink and makeup. I hate bell pepper, celery, and ginger. Love garlic though.

I don't watch anime, I'm not a gamer, I can't finish a whole series or long movie, and I don't read books. My attention span simply said no.

I'm not exactly the kindest person, but I try to be. Someday, if I make it through this adulting thing, I'd love to build a charity for dogs, cats, or old people. I want to help others and be proof that kindness still exists. I want to be someone I'd want to meet during my own hard times.

So yeah, hello.

I’m currently stoned & lonely and in the mood to meet other interesting people. Life has been incredibly boring lately aswell and I just want to spice some things up :-)

I’m a 20f from the East Coast who’s interested in true crime, horror films, listening to all kinds of music(mainly grunge, industrial metal, alt rock), I’m a fan of everything 90s, online forums, dark humor, conspiracy theories,, deep conversations, going out on nature walks, thrifting, collecting physical medias, trying new restaurants, playing guitar, poetry and so much more! I’m an open book so you can ask me whatever. I have time to talk pretty much anytime since I’m not working or in school, I’m currently job hunting and just enjoying being unemployed while it lasts haha. I’m looking for someone that’s open minded, authentic, and deep as a person. I’m open to a long term friendship that could end up with meeting in the future! Feel free to message me! I don’t bite.

I’m 20 y/o I study psychology and I’m struggling with uni and really want friends or some1 to talk to.

I’m into anime movies cartoons and bunch of other interests

Im gonna keep it short so we can have something to discover and talk about

I'm naturally an introvert but I've had to force myself to be sociable and make connections, but because of that I know a lot of people but I don't feel close to any of them.

I only have a few people I consider my close friends and it kinda feels bad that I don't really have someone I can call a bsf or someone I could just talk to for most of the day.

I'm surrounded by a lot of people but I still feel alone cause I can only really open up to people who want to get close to me and only a few people have gotten close.

My interests aren't really that mainstream or even if they are, I can't talk about it much so it's kind of frustrating sometimes that I can't click with others as naturally as some people do.

I like being reserved but the silence also feels suffocating and not having someone to listen to me talk as much as I can is a bit rough too.

22M UK, looking for long term friends preferably those open to talking often

Somewhat mutual effort especially in the beginning is a must for me, just makes it easier i suppose. Wanting friendships where we can eventually talk about anything & genuinely get to know more about each other

Things i’m open to -
Voice calling, sending vn’s, exchanging social medias, meeting up irl & gaming (i play on console)

Some of my interests -
Cooking, watching shows/movies, baking, photography music, travelling

Please don’t dm me if you haven’t read the post or you’re not looking for anything similar🤝

im 19f from the US, central time. i am looking for connections on here because im circle is pretty small and im looking to meet new people. also i just leave my house for work fr 💀. be around my age please, do not be too old. anyways about me i love video games (cant spend much money on em cause im saving tho🫩) im lowkey chronically online as much as i can be when im not sleeping. i love valorant but i also play fortnite halloween marvel rivals mostly whatever my friend asks but alone i wouldnt play at all much. i love music, my favorite artist (RIGHT NEOW) are sza olivia dean and olivia rodrigo, my favorite bands are ptv sws afi and evanescene (i listen to everything. i dont have many hobbies i do but i try, ive tried to get into drawing, i dont like traveling (the very rare times i do because i get car sick af) i also love movies/shows like action medicial and crime or sitcom. (so everything ig?). i love marvel too but i havent been watching the recent stuff? anyways dm if interested? not accepting nsfw accounts, sorry! have a good day <3!

Hi ! I’m Drew! I’m 22 and from the USA. I’m a big nerd and collector who loves anime, manga, and comics. I’m also really into music—I play bass and collect CDs!

I’m a huge movie fan too, so tell me your favorite movie!

I’m currently in college and trying to make some new friends. I’d love to meet and chat with anyone so feel free to DM me! My DMs are always open.