how to discipline a cat without being the bad guy???
okay so i need help because i have NO idea how to discipline a cat and mine is being a menace lately
i adopted my cat about 6 months ago from a shelter. she was an ANGEL the first few months but now she's literally jumping on the kitchen counters, knocking my water glass off my nightstand at 4am on PURPOSE, and she scratched my new couch yesterday and i almost cried
ive been googling how to discipline a cat and the answers are SO different like??? some sites say spray bottle, others say NEVER spray bottle because it ruins your bond, some say loud noises, some say just ignore bad behavior, my roommate said her mom used to flick her cats nose which sounds kinda mean
ive been trying to say "no" really firmly when she does stuff but she literally just stares at me and then does it again like 10 seconds later. yesterday she made eye contact with me while pushing my chapstick off the table i CANNOT
i dont wanna be mean to her or scare her because she's so sweet most of the time and she sleeps on my chest every night but also i cant keep buying new water glasses every week and my couch is RUINED
whats the actual right way on how to discipline a cat without traumatizing her or making her hate me??? like is there a method that actually works or do cats just do whatever they want forever lol