u/Arierean

Am I the asshole? I’m pregnant and I’m getting induced next week. For context my baby’s father got another woman pregnant when he left me and I have been with another man my whole pregnancy. I told her father I have boundaries for my comfort. I said he could be in the room mostly but he wants to be the only one and finally said when I’m pushing he wanted my husband out of the room but I told him I wanted him there and he says I’m being selfish and a bitch etc. I told him it’s my delivery and my comfort and I don’t have to do anything he says but I don’t know. He’s not done anything for me this whole pregnancy other than stress me out, start drama and text me he loves the baby and paid for some of the baby shower. Am I the asshole?