Need Advice ASAP
We broke up in August 2024. It was a very sudden breakup, and I was completely shattered. Her behavior toward me at the end was really horrible. After that, I tried several times to convince her to come back, but she never did, and I kept getting hurt in the process.
Eventually, I gave up in May 2026. Then, a month later, in June 2026, it was my birthday. She casually wished me in the morning.
After that, I sent her one last long message because, this time, I had truly given up. I didn’t want her existence to remain a part of my life anymore because I felt that distancing myself completely would help me move on faster.
Since then, we haven’t spoken at all. It’s been complete no contact until today.
Her birthday is on October 5. Should I wish her? Should I break no contact?