Found out today that the lady I suspect of molesting my son has been manipulating my babysitter and showing up to his daycare.
I already reported that my son was showing signs of sexual abuse in March to the cops.
He was giving head to stuffed animals regularly and has been having panic attacks in the bath since 6 months old.
With the molestation suspicions and behaviors my son was having we kept explaining things away but more was happening.
My son kept trying to look under my skirt and put his face on my crotch. He kept trying to forcefully kiss me.
The real straw for me was truthfully my husband getting fully medicated around March and he remembered and shared additional signs he had of sexual abuse himself.
This led to additional suspicions surrounding his mother and grandmother which were two of the three suspects as they were the ones who bathe my son. (My son gets ear infections is what we always said he was scared of the bath)
One of the memories my husband uncovered was basically him doing the same behavior as my son when he was very little and remembering grandma like sort of groping him in the bath. She said “never let anyone do this and grabbed genitals”.
With that information and my father also being somewhat suspicious…. We cut the family off from watching him alone. I also accused all three family members that had bathed him to see their reactions.
All three reacted poorly.
The grandma is the only one who continues to pester us like talking to our kid is her crack and I’m tired of dealing with this grooming behavior all the time.
She keeps showing up to our home unannounced even though we told her not to show up. Also, lots of grooming behaviors like kissing my 3 year old son over and over and over in my face and won’t stop when my son is trying to get away. Won’t stop when I tell her to. Will use any excuse to undress him and got angry recently when I wouldn’t let her undress him. Tried to undress him without asking quickly in front of me. These undressing situations have all been after I accused everyone.
This lady works at the school with kids all day.
Is there a way to override this pedophile ass town and report through other channels? I am in Oklahoma.
Edit: Can’t get a restraining order we had a financial issue and it’s her son’s house we are living in. We are both in school and can move away in 6 months hopefully.