Crush dilemma
Not sure if this is the right place but i need some help. So, I have a crush on this girl, and i recently found out that....her stepsister has a crush on me. I don't know how to deal with this. We are young, like still in school young and said stepsister is one grade younger than me and im about to graduate. We are in band together and we have a concert VERY soon and i don't know how to deal with this and don't want to be tense during the concer. I am not sure if i have a crush on her. Probably not. I still want to be friends with her as we have really bonded but how would I turn her down gently and still be her friend while simulatiously having a crush on her stepsister. I found out very recently that she has a crush on me and i do not know if it is a very big crush. Please give some advice.