u/ArtisticNoise2173

Mid 30’s Dating a Widower - need some help

We met a few months ago. it moved quickly. this woman is perfect almost. beautiful smart everything anyone could ever dream of.

Her ex husband died 4ish years ago. they had a child together who’s still young pre teen. She owns a successful business and runs it with her family. they are all very close.

I was the first person she kissed since. when we go out she has no problem with me holding her she grabs my hands a lot. A few days ago the topic of sex came up. Her husband was her first and only partner.

She asked me if she wasn’t able to again would that be a problem. Less so for the enjoyment but more so that I think I want my own children one day.

im also terrified that if sex does happen in the future its only because she’s doing me a favor.

If it was any other woman on earth I’d of been out without a second thought.

Ive never had a problem getting or staying with women I just never found one I could spend the rest of my life with, until now. Any advice here would be very appreciated

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u/ArtisticNoise2173 — 13 days ago