u/Artistic_Dragonfly75

I am curious, has anyone ever wondered if they were to blame for the outcome of the tragic ending to the relationship. I go into these thought process loops where I think maybe if we didn’t [insert random stressful life thing] maybe things would have been different. For instance, sometimes adding additions children, pets ect. adds stress in our lives that could be prevented by not having such things and keeping life as stress free as possible. I know sometimes we cant change the past but it’s hard