It's your fault if you can't find someone by "following the script"
It's litterally possible to find someone by "following the script".
A "nice guy" (financially stable, good status, and nice with women) can find a life partner.
A "good girl" (staying "pure" and being a good wife) can find a life partner.
Same for "alpha males", "pick-me"s, "white knight", "trad wifes", "passenger princess", "soft boy", "gym bro": you can find your person.
So why dating seem difficult then?
[Lust enter the room]
The people complaining that the other gender is at fault doesn't notice which kind of people they choose. You know you are X and you need Y but you keep chasing the wrong person because of lust or that you felt a spark. But did you check that your wants are compatible?
You say you're a nice guy? Fine, there are women who want a commited relationship where they are provided for. You're a girl boss? Fine, there are men who want an independent person to do 50/50.
Just ask yourself if what you want and what you have to offer match.
It's time to stop following your impulse and start using your brain if you want to be happy.
Nowadays people are entilted to have everything for cheap. I thought everyone learned what "tradeoffs" mean in adulthood.