Feel like not enough
Heya, I'm a enby (amab kinda trans fem on low e)
I'm dating a trans woman, we've been together for 4 ish years now. We're pretty happy but recently (2ish months ago) she mentioned how she wished she could date a woman.
I thought she wanted to break up and it just felt really hurtful, but my brain was going too fast and it was just- snowballing stuff that we settled later by talking through it all
We've talked since then and she said it was more insecurities she had but I can't get over it really. She is hanging out with more trans women recently and I kinda feel just insignificant and have thoughts of whether she'd love me more if I was a trans woman or if I'll ever be good enough for her.
Obviously not great thoughts. Does anyone have any advice for working through these thoughts? Or just trying to feel more secure?