My father took my door away
My sister (22) had a huge argument with my father a few days ago. The fight started because my sister was meeting with friends, and when my father demanded my sister to send her location during the meeting, she fought back and said that she was old enough and didn’t have to.
I (F18) wasn’t involved in the argument at first, but I voiced that I was on my sisters side and comforted her later on.
But two days ago really was too much.
My father confronted my sister in a family meeting, yelling at her and making her cry in front of the family because of the argument a few days ago.
This continued on until we were home again, and my sister and I argued against my father that we were old enough by now and that he is being ridiculous. I don’t want to go too much into detail about the fight, since a lot of hurtful things happened to me and my sister.
My mother was always on my father’s side.
A few hours after the argument my father called me and my sister to him and asked us.
“Are any of you two s3xtrafficers?”
We of course answered with no.
And then he proceeded to say.
“Well in that case, I see no reason for you two to keep your door closed, the door stays open at all times. You can’t and hopefully don’t have something to hide from me. And if any of you close the door, I’ll take it out of the doorframe.”
Anyway, I’m currently writing this in my room, my body is shaking and I feel like I’m about to lose my mind. A home is supposed to be a place of comfort, an escape.
Now I don’t even have privacy. And it’s driving me insane. I don’t want everything I said to be heard, I don’t want everything I do to be noticed.
What if I wanna cry?
What if I wanna call someone?
What if I wanna listen to music?
Talk to myself?
Sing?
Play games in a call with friends?
Just be alone and enjoy solitude?
Change clothes?
…Have privacy?!
Edit: To anyone wondering, I live in Germany. I’m still in school and although I have an after school job, I don’t have enough money to move out unfortunately.