Is it a red flag if someone is completely accepting of you having bpd?
I’m 24 and Met a guy recently who is 25. Told him I had bpd.
Normally this makes some guys run or some just look confused and have no idea what it is. And then they sometimes ghost after researching it.
But this guy just smiled at me and said it’s fine and how most of his ex’s have bpd. And it doesn’t matter to him if someone has bpd or not.
I asked him if it was hard dating women with BPD as he had so many ex’s and he just said no it was normal just with them crying so much. He laughed while he said that. Also he made a weird joke how he finds it funny when people cry.
One big thing he revealed was that his longest relationship he ever had was 3 months.
Do you think it’s a bad idea to continue with him? On the positive side he’s completely chill with me having bpd and treats me normal.
Even when I told him all my traumas he seemed unfazed like it wasn’t a big deal