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This was like my 3rd/4th date with this guy I met through a friend. I’m 20 and he’s 25 (almost 26). On the drive home he started asking really deep questions and told me he gets intrusive thoughts about hurting people sometimes. Right after, he played Kanye’s “I Thought About Killing You,” which kind of threw me off.
He’s also told me he has bipolar disorder, lacks empathy, and doesn’t really feel things.
Another thing is he randomly chokes me/pulls me in to kiss him. I don’t mind choking, it’s just kind of a lot sometimes because it’s so random/intense.
I can’t tell if I’m reading too much into this or if my gut is trying to tell me something. What would you think?