u/Asleep-Praline-5087

What Aspect Cause This Pattern?

I’m in this situation with a guy and I know that I should let go but I don’t want to. I keep saying to myself if he explained himself instead of icing me out I’d forgive him. That’s something I normally don’t do with men, I will remove them from my life immediately if they’re doing something that I don’t like or doesn’t make me feel good.

But, I can’t do that with him. I want to work through it, I want him to open up to me. It’s as though, I’m okay with him hurting me as long as he’s with me and that’s something that’s very unlike me to feel. With him I feel that way strongly although it’s hurting me so much.

u/Asleep-Praline-5087 — 4 days ago

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I’m in a delicate romantic connection with someone. I’ve never had this connection before. It’s so frustrating, I feel such a strong pull towards them, but also very much distrust their motives and intentions. Like they’re not being fully honest with me, which makes it hard for me to fully be open with them.

What’s your experience with this connection? How did it pan out? Are you still together? What were your struggles within this connection?

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u/Asleep-Praline-5087 — 18 days ago