AITA for ending a friendship after she used my house as a dating location?
Hello.
I had a friend who lived 8 hours away. She chose to come and visit me at one of my worst times. I was crazy busy trying to prep my house for sale and was insanely busy cleaning it for listing pics. She said she was going to come to help me.
Instead, she slept in til 1pm got up went for coffee and disappeared for hours. I was too busy cleaning and don’t want to tell people want to do but I was getting worried. I phoned her to find out where she was and she said she’d arranged a date (from some random she’d met on a dating app- as she was now pairing with new people in my location).
I was totally confused. I’ve helped many people move. I’ve never trolled for local dudes when visiting a friend.
I later found out from my neighbour she was sitting in her car texting for hours instead of coming in and helping me.
I was getting more agitated the longer she stayed as she didn’t help me clean anything and instead made a big todo about preparing a big meal which was the last thing I needed.
She asked me when she would leave and I suggested the next day. She got a bit pissy about it saying she needed more time to arrange passengers. I was like ok, leave whenever.
I needed to keep focused on my house. I didn’t have time for all this nonsense and distraction. When she returned home she ignored me for a few weeks and I was like “I’m done.” And blocked her.
I still think it’s weird.