u/AssociateDue6161

I can’t afford a lawyer, but he’s gone over a year without any over nights. At one point he was giving me $150/month, only for a few months, has since stopped. Our court documents are from 2019, 50/50, no support either way. He did something similar for 10 months (14 overnights during that entire time) but was paying $150/month. I’m over it - but I also don’t want to open a can of worms. (He texts somewhat often and takes kid to dinner once or twice a month, so it’s not abandonment.) Do I simply file for modification? We were both pro se the first round, but golly, the stress of that may not outweigh the financial stress this has been.