Need relationship (suitor) advice!!💕Taglish
Hii!! I'm currently going through a lack of emotional availability rn or something along the lines. He's the first guy na hinayaan ko manligaw and I'm really really looking for advice rn huhu😭 For context–He's my classmate and we started off as friends untill he eventually started having feelings for me. So nag confess sya within two months of being friends and I told him that I really only see him as a friend and wanted to keep it that way, to make a long story short he eventually brought up his feelings again and I decided to let him express his feelings, he officially became my suitor on march lol. So here's the problem, we're both very closed off even after months of trying to be closer. He misses a lot of my emotions–mostly when I'm upset, and I've noticed that he doesn't know how to really apologize. I feel very ignored and invaluable A LOT of times😭 and the thing I hate the most is how he has never initiated anything and some of he's opinions–he claimed to be apolitical😭I'm very vocal about government issues, buttt when I told him I didn't like that, he said he'd look into it, which I doubt he took seriously pero I really wish he'd make that effort, not for me but as a filipino citizen. To be fair! I'm not very chalant cause I think we don't have that much in common, also I'm not good with words to HIM kase I'm holding back a lot, idk why but I really don't know what to say to him. He's not bad at all I just think he's super oblivious. He's kind, sweet and gentle. And even though I don't really feel it I know he's doing he's best to understand me, and I'm really trying my best to do the same. Plssss helpp. Idk kung anong dapat kong gawin or sabihin😭 It's really hard for me to talk about how I feel towards him kase it feels cringe for me😭