u/AstronautSerious3892

We’re both 19, we’ve been dating for around 6 months now. Everything’s great, he is a really good guy who cares a lot about me and treats me really well. But the only major problem in our relationship is that we are not able to meet that often plus he doesn’t call me everyday as well because he lives with his cousins and it’s a lil difficult for him. I’ve communicated to him several times that communication and quality time is really important to me but he still doesn’t do it. He says it’s not that big of a deal and we are not on a time clock that we are not running out of time. But it just that it really bothers me or maybe I’m just being clingy idk. Apart from this issue I think rest everything is fine. I am just not able to feel connected to him because of the fact that all we do is text. And it’s not like we are having proper conversations on text as well. It’s like all we do is update each other about our day, that’s it.

Tl;dr- feeling a communication gap with him due to not talking to him everyday on call but it’s difficult for him call as well.

We’re both 19, we’ve been dating for around 6 months now. Everything’s great, he is a really good guy who cares a lot about me and treats me really well. But the only major problem in our relationship is that we are not able to meet that often plus he doesn’t call me everyday as well because he lives with his cousins and it’s a lil difficult for him. I’ve communicated to him several times that communication and quality time is really important to me but he still doesn’t do it. He says it’s not that big of a deal and we are not on a time clock that we are not running out of time. But it just that it really bothers me, am I just being clingy. Apart from this issue I think rest everything is fine. I am just not able to feel connected to him because of the fact that all we do is text. And it’s not like we are having proper conversations on text as well. It’s like all we do is update each other about our day, that’s it. And when we are on call, I feel like I run out of things to say. So pls tell me whether I am overreacting or being clingy or am I right to feel this way and what should I do?

Tl;dr- we both text each other all day but I don’t feel connected to him that much because we barely talk on call.