Not easy finding other ENM couples for several reasons (including finding a sitter) How to get more involved in lifestyle community?
Is this common in the ENM/poly “world”? Fairly new to it. Have had 3 experiences , short lived, with other married couples. Currently one couple lives far away and the scheduling is near impossible due to their schedules versus ours. I assumed it was basically they’re busy and have 3 kids to care for (true) but the one partner informed me they have a sex party (at a friend’s house) next weekend. I’m a bit envious and feeling disappointed darn it !
What I’ve come to is, if any person or couple is “too busy” to schedule something, theyre just not interested enough.
So, we go on the apps (Feeld and Swinger lifestyle) but its hard meeting anyone nearby. Weve been to the “clubhouse” once before - a little skeevy but.. its a way to meet other couples i suppose.
Suggestions??