Interpret as legit concern
My husband has a female friend who sends her 5 yoga photos, he asks her about "what sexy clothes are you going to wear for the trip to Europe ?" She was married 2 years before us. He announces my absence. They talk to each other frequently. I believe that unless two people are willing, this would not happen. B4 marriage ,I found from his gallery she used to send him flying kisses on video call. There were pictures of him sending winks at her. Saw photos of her getting hugged in a room, with his hands right in front of the chest and face right besides her face touching.Even after calling out, the behavior after marriage and the non-platonic relationship they had before marriage. He kept on saying he did not have anything before and after marriage but I classify this as "emotional infidelity" after marriage, but continued to talk to her for another 3 months after our marriage- all these behavior. I asked him to give her closure, to show his phone occasionally and to stop talking to her- he denied all these request. I have got no reassurance by word or by action. His own quote " His 15 years of friendship is more important than you". He stopped talking to her after 3 months, but I have not forgiven or bought his explanation. My marriage of 4 years is on the fence right now. Advice/ emotional infidelity or not are all welcome!!!