Why the fuck would a man tell a woman he’s trying to date this ???
I was actually really vibing with this guy. He'd been nice, charming, and I genuinely would've gone out with him.
He asked me when I last did anything with someone. (Have literally only been with my ex over 5 months ago) I honestly didn't really like being asked that, but whatever, I answered him and then asked him the same thing. He said three weeks ago.
And yes, before Reddit comes for me... I did ask, "Did you enjoy it?" Maybe I shouldn't have. I was being a little sarcastic and honestly didn't really know what else to say. I also didn't realize he meant he'd actually had sex with her. I thought he could've meant making out or something.
When I asked if he enjoyed it, I was expecting something like "yeah lol." I was NOT expecting to hear that she was "crazy tight," that she started blowing him, followed by a play-by-play and a quote about wanting him inside her.
Like... what am I supposed to say to that? Congratulations? High five? 💀
I completely stopped responding after this. It was such a turnoff, especially because I actually liked him before this conversation. I genuinely don't understand why you would give a woman you're trying to date graphic details about another woman you recently slept with.
Am I missing something here? Because I genuinely cannot understand why a man would think a woman he's trying to date wants this information. 😭