Am i wrong for being upset that my husband hid that he could dance.
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Hi im 36f have been with my husband (34M) for 12 years, married for 9. Throughout our entire relationship,
he's always told me he can't dance and never would. The only time we danced together was at our wedding.
Whenever we go out, he refuses to dance and encourages me to dance with other people because he knows I enjoy it. It's fun, but I've always wished it was him I was dancing with.
He hardly ever drinks, but it was his brother's 40th birthday on Friday, so everyone was drunk at the pub. They started dancing, and guess what?
My husband was dancing too, and he's amazing! I enjoyed the night, but I was really hurt that he's never told me about this and has hidden it from me. I spoke to his brother, who said that my husband has actually won awards for dancing.
I'm not mad, more sad and disappointed that he never shared this with me. Of course, it's his choice, but on so many nights out, I would have loved it if it was him I was dancing with and him his wife he cam be open. With me.
Am i wrong for being upset by this?