AIO: Friend asked husband and I to have threesome
Okay this is more of a “am I overreacting or do we think my friend wants to fuck my husband” or am I paranoid. For context, this is a new friend I met at the bar, we have gone to lunch and done laundry together and normal things outside of just drinking but I will say we do spend a lot of time at the bar together. We met in January when my husband and I had first gotten engaged before we eloped and over the past 5 ish months I have gotten to know her she has shown me a caring, loving side of her that makes me want to trust her and be her friend, but she also has a crazy side to her. She does a lot of drugs, sleeps around with a lot of different guys, and has a super unstable dating life that she’s constantly ranting about. Her dating life basically consists of her getting super high, having super freaky sex with dudes and then getting attached to one of them, then using the rest of her “roster” for revenge. She has also had a threesome with one of her other friends and her boyfriend. She also was obsessed with this guy she was hooking up with and he very clearly had another girl spend the night, she said he swore they were just friends, and then come to find out later they fucked (shocker I know) and she said “I would have fucked __ too, I’m pansexual we could have all fucked her!” So clearly a pattern here with threesomes. Despite her chaos, I still appreciated her friendship and we have fun together and I also have a hard time connecting to people and not feeling socially awkward and I didn’t feel like that with her. So about 2 weeks ago myself (24) my husband (37) and my friend (28) were hanging out at the bar and she randomly says something along the lines of us smoking weed at our house and then having a threesome. I remember feeling shocked and embarrassed that she would suggest that but I laughed it off and my husband and I went home shortly after. She has also made flirty jokes, including one about rubbing his head and making a wish. Now she’s being wishy washy with me but said “Hi __!!!!!” To my husband last night after I had said hi to her, went to the bathroom, and came back. I don’t know if I’m overreacting? Like who the hell asks a newlywed couple to have a threesome??? My plan is to distance myself from her but I don’t want to straight up be like hey I don’t want to be your friend because I feel like you want to fuck my husband? Or me? Or both? I don’t even know. Thanks for reading