u/Automatic-Feature352

My 27 month old is throwing crazy tantrums. Cannot be calmed with talking, with soothing or with sitting there letting her process. Recently her thing has been kicking while holding her and if trying to put her down she goes limp, doesn’t let you put her down and lifts her legs to avoid being put down. All of this is causing me physical pain and aside from that, it’s driving us crazy. It’s so hard to deal with and I’m not sure how to help her. Trying to be gentle and not let her cry it out but I don’t know what to do. Baby will be here next month and I’m worried about how she will be and how the tantrums could affect the baby (physically mainly). TIA.