I’ve (25F) been intentionally single for the better part of a year after only dating men and having horrific experiences. I have been building queer community in this time which has been amazing.
Met a beautiful, funny woman and went on two dates, there’s been a lot of physical chem and things got intense fast, but while planning the next date I’m finding myself pulling away
I like her a lot but there are lulls in conversation and personality differences. Could just be my inexperience and awkwardness.
I was also enjoying single life quite a lot before this, but I want to be open to partnership because I’m never going to get comfortable with it if I never try, and I want to someday feel comfortable. She is very experienced and I have appreciated her leading the way and pushing me to be more vulnerable, but it feels like a lot to jump into.
I am sorta mentally spiraling wondering if we just don’t vibe or if it’s something wrong with me or if I’m not meant to be with women at all or just meant to be on my own right now.
Should I move forward with the date or just end things here?