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Safira’s bellydance animation!

I’m sharing this today! It’s 38°C today, and I’m already sweating just from watching Safira move. The worst part is that it looks pretty hot over on her end, too.

Anyway… I finally finished animating these longest 13 seconds of my life. This took forever, and I couldn't have done it without Laura Pacheco Cadena’s references.

Cheers!

u/PacoPacato — 8 hours ago

does anyone else like/want to be eaten out non sexually/just as a stim?

am I crazy lol? just like: chillin on the pillows and gettin ur box ate but it’s just a nice sensation/non sexual?? 😭😭

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u/angelroach — 6 hours ago

Question

Is anyone else like very much attracted to a persons voice? like if my girlfriend voice isnt what i like i cant date them? i dont know whats wrong with me but instead of looks, shapes and sizes im more of a voice person . i know im not as attractive so i feel bad because im judging a female for a voice . does this make me a shitty person?

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u/Dry-Watercress6741 — 2 hours ago

We're queer and we're here 🏳️‍🌈

We must make sure everyone is safe enough to be their true self. Lesbianism is not be gatekept adopted by hate, but to be an identity for those who need it.

(Art by liberaljane)

u/Constant_Poem_1938 — 12 hours ago

My Midnight Life Crisis

I don’t crave sex as much as I crave a woman who makes me forget the world for a while. Someone I can pull close, bury my face into her chest, steal slow kisses until neither of us remembers what time it is. It’s frustrating because the urge always shows up at night.

I’ll be lying in bed, perfectly fine one minute, and then suddenly all I can think about is what it would feel like to have someone beside me. Her legs tangled with mine. Her warmth. Her scent. My hands fondling her body, rubbing her soft wet pussy and eating eachother deeply. The kind of make-out session where neither of us is in a hurry, where we keep smiling between kisses because we simply can’t stop.

Instead, I’m grinding with the pillow until I fall asleep. But a pillow isn’t a woman. A blanket doesn’t kiss you back. My imagination has become way too good at filling in the gaps, and somehow that only makes the loneliness louder.

u/melaninnotes — 7 hours ago

I really want to take care of a woman I love.

Like, cooking for her, carrying her things, doing the difficult chores, carrying her and tucking her into bed when she's too tired, giving her my jacket when it's cold, bathing her, buying her things she likes, supporting her when she has her period, driving her wherever she wants, protecting her... It's silly, but that's what I want. PLEASE I NEED TO LOVE

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u/Icy_Dig_3691 — 8 hours ago

Thumb Kissing

[For those of you who pleaded I explain this, I'm sorry I wasn't aware thumb thing wasn't popular 😭😭]

The thumb thing is basically when your partner/kisser leans in grabs your jaw (soft/hard however you like it) eyes you traces your jaw softly and kisses you deep.. and while sucking your tongue slips in their thumb and makes you suck it so it gets all drooly and drippy with saliva. Brownie points if the thumb has a ring ;)

Pulls away after a heavy makeout session and has that string of saliva connect both of your lips. A very popular addition to it is stroking your cheek with the thumb and whispering dirty things before making out!!

HOPE THIS CLARIFIES IT 😩😤❤️

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u/rosesurosie — 6 hours ago

my lesbian mind at 4 yrs old XD

I'm gay, and I've always been gay XD, and I remembered this thing that, when I was like 4yo' I was watching this very sexy song that was on the TV , and that actress was so hot that I was captivated.. and I was curious and pointed towards her cleavage and asked my mom, "what's this line on her chest?" and my mom slapped me hard XD and said "don't ask such questions" 😭😭. Do ya'll remember such stuff from your childhood? I'm curious to hear XD

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u/jacked_chocopie — 9 hours ago

Going down on her

So I just lost my virginity this past weekend and am still learning. I was always really nervous to do oral sith a girl but I actually absolutely loved it and want to do it again, but I struggled to breathe during it which made it a little hard to focus. Does anyone have advice for breathing while eating my partner out?

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u/RoosterDuckling — 6 hours ago

I miss talking about nothing

I've been talking to people online for quite some time now, and I'm starting to notice that the only conversations that seem to stick are the ones with a lot of sex.

Don't get me wrong, I like sexting. It's fun, it's exciting, and I genuinely enjoy it.

But sometimes I just want someone to tell me about the random stuff that happened in their day.

Like, show me that weird looking rock you found on your walk. Tell me what you had for breakfast. Tell me about that dream you had last night that made zero sense. Let me scold you for not taking care of yourself or something.

I don't know. Those tiny, mundane moments feel weirdly intimate to me.

I think being someone's "I saw this and thought of you" person is a lot more romantic than people give it credit for.

I just miss the feeling of sharing a life with someone. It doesn't necessarily have to be in a romantic way.

Does anyone else feel this way?

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u/noceurbatter9 — 12 hours ago

I dreamed I had a girlfriend

I hope I dream about her tonight to, oh my god. She was beautiful, we held hands slowly, made out, did more than that. Her just wearing a bikini and a shirt and me getting closer to say hi just to care her arm and her reciprocating. I want her so bad. Come back, please

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u/KissMeAndSayNoHomo — 12 hours ago

Going on a third date today but have obvious hickeys on the side of my neck

Hey folks - I’m casually dating at the moment and going on a third date with a woman I quite like. I hooked up with a different woman earlier this week and she gave me some fresh hickeys (3 obvious ones in a row) down the side of my neck.

Even though we all know there’s no exclusivity and we’re all dating multiple people, I’m quite concerned this appears disrespectful. Should I call it out, wait for her to bring it up and tell the truth, or apply a thick layer of concealer and hope I don’t sweat it off?

We’re in the midst of a heatwave so I can’t wear a turtleneck or scarf.

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u/watermelon-gummy — 1 day ago

I feel guilty for liking women I think

I'm a trans woman 5 years hrt . I feel so dirty for being attracted to women like I shouldn't. I say I'm straight because I don't want to be seen as a creep. I'm denying myself even the possibility of being attracted to women. I just want to be there friends and not be seen as a threat but sometimes I do catch feelings or they are attractive. I just beat myself up. I'm not even staring but notice boobs and stuff like that, I just look for a moment before feeling so much guilt. I can suppress it but lately it's been hard.

I don't know what's wrong lately but I just feel hot and my mind is feral for women. My lower back hurts. I feel like I'm in a frenzy and I want a woman to slowly kiss my neck. Even their smell is enough to have me distracted and fantasy. So my guilt is flaring up bad but I don't care but I should. I don't want to be a creep. I just feel like it would be easier to be straight

Do some women feel guilty for loving women? And having desires?

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u/InitialWhole4315 — 19 hours ago