advice for an inexperienced lesbian: how to casually hookup?
hi all!
i identify as a lesbian, & discovered this in 6th grade. i've had my share of crushes and unhealthily intimate friendships, but i have never dated or had sex with another person. i am currently starting my freshman year of college and have been meeting all kinds of people and i am genuinely looking to actually explore my lesbian identity ... hookup culture is pretty standard for a lot of college life, you hear about it a LOT - but how in the hell do you hookup as a woman with another woman?
for example, heterosexual people can easily fuck on a whim w/ strategically placed box of condoms with no regard for prep like gay men, or extra equipment like us ... of course, i'm aware that you definitely don't need to have a strap or toys to have a great time having sex with another woman (or anyone for that matter), but i am quite interested in exploring strap-ons & topping.
what i'm trying to say is where do i even begin to prepare for safe sex & sex in general with a girl? like, do i have a drawer of dental dams like heteros do w/ condoms? do i buy a strap and have it in my dresser for situations like so? LMAO help 😗