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So turns out my left ovary had a cyst and for some reason it just never went away on its own and kept growing and because I have such shit luck my other ovary developed a 10 inch cyst that needed to be removed. But guess what it gets even better the big cyst made my tube twist so I was also dealing with that.

I had be put into a 9 hour emergency surgery and then a week in the hospital.

But I’m also extremely angry I had this pain for a month ( not the tube twisted that was recent thing) and I kept telling every doctor I want a scan

I was told it was a uti , maybe I’m pregnant ( literally not possible because 1 I’m single 2 I’m a lesbian so make that make sense) then when they find out what it actually is I’m told the surgery will be done but we also might not do it because you could lose the ovaries so I ask why

Every doctor was convinced I wanted children or that I would change my mind about them , I DO NOT WANT CHILDREN why is this so hard to understand I’m not going to get pregnant I will never be pregnant. Oh but you’re so young okay and? They only started talking me seriously when I literally had to spell the words LESBIAN oh no so scary

Genuinely don’t know what stressed me out more , the pain and having that pain for a month and not being taken seriously until I literally couldn’t do anything or having to tell doctors every five fucking minutes that I don’t want children and that I don’t care if I lose a ovary just get the cyst out of me.

Why is everyone obsessed with me getting pregnant go and help someone who actually wants that instead of the lesbian woman who just wants to go home and play her games in peace

Woke up today with a lovely surprise of pain on my left . I’ve never had one of the cysts pop before so I thought it was food poisoning. When it didn’t go away and I kept throwing up that’s when my family took me to the hospital because I didn’t know what was happening and neither did they

4 hours I had to wait to be seen , I was wheelchair bound and no help was offered, no matter how I sat there was no way to ease the pain

On the 3 hour mark it becomes so unbearable I’m practically begging to be seen so they see me.

I’ve been given something called kodenie? Honestly it’s not doing much but the pain is a lot better but I cannot get comfortable. And I still can’t keep any water down without feeling sick.

this pain is worse when I smashed my jaw into a rock and my teeth flew back into my mouth.

Any advice you could give me ? Best remedies or positions so I can get comfortable.

Many thanks

All the way through camp Cretaceous Sammy talks about how much she cares for her family and that she’s always surrounded by family members and she loves them to the point where she took a deal to save her family’s ranch which ultimately led up to be stranded on the island for nearly a year

And then they just basically disowned her??? After everything she has been through they stopped talking to her because she didn’t want to sell the ranch so they just cut her off??

And obviously with yaz she didn’t really talk to Sammy but that’s was more of a ptsd/communication problem but they got their happy ending after a much needed talk and a break up ( I wouldn’t call it a breakup to be honest lol) and then another much needed talk

I just hate how her family ditched her when things got tough.

I can’t find clothes that feel comfortable and look good due to my weight ( mostly stomach, hips , thighs area) I only have one T-shirt and 3 pairs of jeans because looking and trying on clothes makes me so stressed and upset that I’d rather not do it at all.

I want clothes that are comfortable but aren’t tight where you see the curves and that’s hard to find because I dress somewhat tomboyish so I’m really limited on what I can wear and sometimes I feel like a loser for wearing the same outfit ( it is cleaned regularly)

How do you guys deal with clothing choices that help hide your body but that it’s also fashionable?

I’m somewhat new to valorant on console I played it when it first released but due to some personal reasons I couldn’t play it and literally only started playing again yesterday

I remember playing deadlock the most and I was okay, she probably not the best character to pick but I’m decent with her but now that I’m playing again it feels like the whole game has changed, my shots aren’t hitting the character feels slow and when I use my abilities they rarely work.

I enjoy playing as deadlock but now it feels harder then it was before and it doesn’t help that I have no one to play with so everytime I play and see my team and the enemy team they also pick the popular agents and I feel like I’m going to make us lose because of the agent I’m picking

So any tips or advice for the deadlock mains out there ?

I’m 24 , lesbian and only play on console on EU/UK servers

I’ll be honest I haven’t played valorant since it came out on console but I want to get back into it so I’m probably extremely bad

It would be easier for both of us if we’re both from the eu because of the short time difference but everyone is welcome and I’d prefer if we’re in the same age range

Thanks for reading

I’ve been trying to get too 11 stone , I’m currently 18 stone and 7 months ago I was over 20 , I had trouble getting below 18 because of my pcos so I went to the doctors they gave me orlistat and then didn’t really help with anything else just told me to exercise and only eat 1,400 calories a day with lots of water ( didn’t work and I hated orlistat)

I’m waiting for a review because they said the amount of weight I lost wasn’t enough so we need to talk about other options, they had told me I wasn’t qualified for other options so honestly I’m ready for them to just not do anything and tell me the usual stuff that I’ve heard a million times

I’ve been doing plenty of exercise ( 4 times a week for 40 minutes a day ) that is beneficial for my pcos while not affecting me badly with my other health problems as I can’t strain myself too much as I pass out very easily

I also completely changed my diet but also not completely cutting out foods that I like just only having small amount of the unhealthy foods in a moderate amount

I try to get lots of sleep but I’m a extremely light sleeper so it’s been hard with noisy neighbours and loud cards speeding down my street

I’ll be honest I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong , I’m trying harder then I was before and I just can’t get pass 18 stone I don’t even have to make it to 11 I’d be fine with 14 honestly but with limited help from doctors and with a family that tells me I’m either cheating, not trying hard enough or ask the same questions over and over again to annoy me ( they know the answer because they ask what the medication does at least 5 times a week ) I’m frustrated and stressed and I’m tired of putting in all this work to not see any type of results

If anyone has been in my situation please give me advice, I want to lose weight so I can start trying new things and get my self esteem back

I hope it’s okay to post this on here I don’t go on Reddit much

So I’m 24 and my mom is 60 and my stepdad is 56. I’ve been noticing that since I turned a adult everything I say both of them question whether or not what I’m saying is right or even real and they do it with things that I’ve studied in education too it’s like I could say the weather is going to be bad and show them proof but they don’t believe me until they look at their own proof and most times they’re wrong because they’re searching the wrong thing or in the past I’ve told them to get a specific item and they’ll get the complete opposite, say that it’s the same thing I’ll show them literal proof and they’ll still won’t believe me but then when my sibling agrees with me all of a sudden they change their mind?

I don’t understand why I’m not being believed for the simplest things? It’s frustrating me and honestly I don’t want to talk to them just to avoid the fact I’m not going to be listened too we can have full blown arguments where I’m trying to tell them something with proof and they won’t believe me and then after the argument they’ll google it , see that I’m right and then not even apologise to me

I kinda want to go limited contact with them when I move out , I just don’t understand what I’m doing wrong is it because of who I am and my life style?

They also tend to ignore me when I try to speak to them like I’ll say they’re names they ignore me and I give it a few seconds and they still ignore me so I’ll say ok then and walk off but then they have a go at me for being rude? They don’t do this with my other siblings?

I’m really starting to hate them and I feel trapped because I’m still on a waiting list so I can move out

So I’m 24 and my mom is 60 and my stepdad is 56. I’ve been noticing that since I turned a adult everything I say both of them question whether or not what I’m saying is right or even real and they do it with things that I’ve studied in education too it’s like I could say the weather is going to be bad and show them proof but they don’t believe me until they look at their own proof and most times they’re wrong because they’re searching the wrong thing or in the past I’ve told them to get a specific item and they’ll get the complete opposite, say that it’s the same thing I’ll show them literal proof and they’ll still won’t believe me but then when my sibling agrees with me all of a sudden they change their mind?

I don’t understand why I’m not being believed for the simplest things? It’s frustrating me and honestly I don’t want to talk to them just to avoid the fact I’m not going to be listened too we can have full blown arguments where I’m trying to tell them something with proof and they won’t believe me and then after the argument they’ll google it , see that I’m right and then not even apologise to me

I kinda want to go limited contact with them when I move out , I just don’t understand what I’m doing wrong is it because of who I am and my life style?

They also tend to ignore me when I try to speak to them like I’ll say they’re names they ignore me and I give it a few seconds and they still ignore me so I’ll say ok then and walk off but then they have a go at me for being rude? They don’t do this with my other siblings?

I’m really starting to hate them and I feel trapped because I’m still on a waiting list so I can move out

I had a pimple on my left breast and after it popped it scabbed over but now there is this slightly raised lump that’s like the size of a pea , it’s not hard but it’s still firm? I do get a lot of pimples and psoriasis around my chest so I’ve been using creams and washes that help with those problems but the lump is still here .

It doesn’t itch or feel hot and nothing is coming out of it as far as I know. Has anyone had something similar? It’s not getting bigger or smaller either

I am booking an appointment tomorrow with my doctor to get it checked out but if anyone has had what I’m describing what was it ?

So in avatar the last air bender when aang and katara go to the water bending master to train but katara can’t train (in the beginning anyway) because she’s a girl , would this also apply to female avatars?

Like if a female avatar before aang had to learn water bending and for some reason the only option was the northern water tribe would they decline the offer because the avatar is female or would they accept only because she’s the avatar ?