it gets better post discard
Hi! For a while I thought I should come here and leave a note.
Around a year and a half ago I started seeing a BP2 man. We already knew each other for a while.
Things developed quickly. The familiar cycle happened: lovebombing > discard.
This sub gave me so much strength when I just could not process the whole thing.
Eventually, I realized I was kind of obsessed in making sense of someone's behavior and that was not at all useful. So, I decided to stop reading things here and in other BP subs.
Still, I came back to share that respecting the other person's decision and not opening the door again was the best thing I could have done.
I have lived so many wonderful things since. And though I suffered a lot, by letting go, I was able to keep seeing the good in that person, whom I think of fondly nowadays.
Anyways, I wanted to leave my gratitude here. Also, share the always accurate "it gets better" for anyone who needs it.