We’re both strict. He’s asked me to unfollow a guy friend ive had an actual history with, i did. In addition, (without letting him know until it came up recently), i had also unfollowed previous matches, fizzled out talking stages, and classmates I’ve felt “those” vibes between.
I know i wasn’t asked to go the extra mile, but i started going through my list and realized, this demographic needs to be removed. Just a cleaning.
Opportunity presented itself, and i asked him to unfollow his bombshell of a girl best friend, that he is already estranged from.
Given their distance, i thought that it would make it easier to just click the button.
(In retrospect, the distance may have had the adverse effect).
I’m not ignorant, they probably have one another on different platforms and each others numbers… im not asking him to completely erase her from his memory, its more of a formality.
He started getting really defensive and making the entire conversation about my old fwb. I said i had already done what he asked, and now im asking him to unfollow his (estranged) closest female friend he admitted he was once, obviously still- attracted to.
He starts distinguishing between physical and non physical connections.
I tell him tit for tat doesn’t matter in relationships. That its juvenile. We have been together 3 years….. im asking him to unfollow his girl friend he has experienced attraction toward- and after that conversation im getting the impression that he would rather just keep following her.
Rip me a new one, tell me what you think.
I think, thats major disrespect. Let down. Reevaluating.
TL;DR: asked him to unfollow his estranged bombshell of a girl friend, he admitted to “once” having attraction to. Dont think he did, dont think he will. Gets extremely defensive the times i actually do bring her up.