BAH Delayed 91 days
Hi everyone. I am in such a difficult position. My partner’s BAH has been delayed since February and his pay has been incorrect. We are currently in a 7600$ hole with our property manager and every day I feel immense stress of being removed from our apartment.
They have been super nice and understand during this time as this delay is out of my hands. He has been to finance nearly twice a week now that he is in AIT and they just don’t file paperwork with intent. I am seeing people from his company receive BAH finally and I check his account every day hoping to see it, but nothing deposits.
What can I do? I am so behind to where I feel like throwing my hands up and accepting defeat but I know that isn’t the correct option. I don’t know if anyone helps fund these situations? He went to ask about an AER yesterday and they said they’d only loan him $1000. Which of course would help but it’s just a major bummer that the people who are supposed to pay and make sure he has a place to return to, ultimately don’t seem to care.
I am trying to remain positive and understand this situation but I sadly have to say I am feeling resentment. I am so stressed and I have no idea what to do. We don’t have family to turn to and it’s just gotten to a point where I don’t even care to think of it anymore.
We are coming up on lease renewal and they will not renew our lease with an unpaid balance and I have asked so many times if I could make partial payments but they won’t accept anything besides the full balance.