Home security system
My mother with Alzheimer’s is still living at home alone and is resistant to any options to bring in help. She has Sundowning and is extremely worried about someone breaking in. She lives out in the country less than 5 minutes from my brother and I live an hour away.
Her current focus is getting someone to live with her so she isn’t scared. Wants my wife and I to move in so she can take care of my wife who has a terminal illness. She doesn’t realize that she is not capable of caring for someone else. I can’t move my wife into my mothers home or move my mother into my home because it would turn my wife who is just trying to make it through the day into a caregiver for my mother while I’m at work. My brother is unable to move her into his house because it is too small.
Has anyone used a security system to help reassure their parent they are safe while also allowing me to monitor for wandering? We have disabled her car but so far she hasn’t wandered.