How do i respect my boss?
Exactly that! I, for the most part have and still do respect him...for now. This is a tricky situation because it's office gossip to the point where favoritism and possibly an affair is affecting how others react and respond to him. Myself included. I won't say where this is but to point out that it's of HIGH moral standing and the people SHOULDNT be acting in this way is putting it lightly. He is letting this woman get away with murder and treat the employees under her with favoritism and to bully and not accomplish work and he covers it up. The entire company thinks there's an affair going on. I see it, everyone sees it. I'll say that I do not I think work in that department but see it as plain as day. Here's my dilemma with it. I also am directly under him. I too am a decent looking woman (there's a point). That being said i have just worked here just over a year and I notice he's close to me too. I noticed last year sometime the 'extra' attention. Nothing out of line. Although I've felt like I've definitely kept him at arms length. Here's the kicker and I hate this...he's really religious. It just sucks. I won't go on about that im cause I'm disappointed more as a Christian myself. But as a newer person I feel like the PERCEPTION people have now of me, is one where they lump me in with her. Freaking eww!!! My pet name is 'frumpty-dumpty". Wearing bright white socks with heels....girl....
Managers.....why?! What could (besides the obvious) could make you jeopardize a high level career, your marriage and all the respect you command?!?!
I'm offended because people clump me in with that and it's harder to take him seriously if he can be lead so simply.
Make no mistake, that is 100% a simpleton thing to do. Get lead around by your dick..how do I maintain respect?