tldr : so me(28f) and my bf(31m) recently broke up after almost 3 years and I heard silliest reason for that. we had a really good time together. next morning he gave me his phone to order from uber eats and I unintentionally checked his blocked list on ig ( no msgs, just the blocked list) and he had unblocked his exes and girls who hit on him before. It’s not that I dont trust him or anything but just maybe came from a fear of abandonment due to my childhood trauma. But we both had decided a long time ago that we both will block each other’s exes, I kept my exes blocked and he unblocked without telling me. When I asked him he said he felt like clearing up his blocked list on insta and blamed me why I touched his phone and went behind his back to see his socials blocked list. he has gone through my insta msgs and snatched my phone playfully before.
things that happened before
his ex actually texted him to unblock because it feels weird to her when he blocked her( 2 years back) he said i was obsessed with his exes but it wasnt completely true. I was just afraid.
Am not sure whose fault it was and if he will come back. He is avoidant type very private and reserving type and im the anxious type.