u/Averyeet0204

How many dilators should I get in a set? (& recs?)

How many dilators should I get in a set? (& recs?)

Hi!! so I recently discovered I have vaginismus. My close friend actually overcame vaginismus a couple years back, so she has been a great support system. I have tried to dilate with fingers but I truly can’t get over feeling it/fingernails/etc.

I asked about dilator brands, and she recommended Vwell.

the initial set of 5 from Vwell she recommended: https://vwell.com/products/silicone-wand-set?gad_campaignid=21863904608&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAqkLvZGTN8Lzwr4wcFlqrpYiDyl1h&gclid=Cj0KCQjw3qLSBhDaARIsAFTiVh4yGsSUNor4TJxSLkaP3A9kwmXhHV6t5JCre83sBRiKMVLkbbQsG6UaAqaiEALw_wcB

but she also said I might benefit from a larger set with more sizes, such as this from the same brand (set of 10): https://vwell.com/products/spectrum-wand-set?_pos=1&_sid=6405b6527&_ss=r

is Vwell an okay brand, or are there other recommendations? I think the kind of pointed end might be good.

regardless of what brand I go with, is it better to get a smaller set or a larger one?

u/Averyeet0204 — 1 day ago

Lube recommendations?

Hi! I’m pretty new here on this Reddit.

what lube is good and won’t irritate me?

Preferably something that will be found in a store like Target, Walmart, etc. I’m 22 but I still live at home and don’t really want to order anything to the house lol.

i havent gotten any dilators yet, I’m still trying to get comfortable with my own fingers and whatnot. but my gyno suggested I try lube.

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u/Averyeet0204 — 1 month ago