u/AwarenessMassive6527

AITA for being upset that my sister seated me with strangers at her wedding?

My sister is getting married in two weeks. I would say we’re relatively close, although she’s always been a bit private and not the most communicative person. I’m a bridesmaid in the wedding (she chose not to have a maid of honor).

Wedding planning has been somewhat chaotic, and there hasn’t been much communication throughout the process. I’ve tried to stay out of it and only help when asked because I know planning a wedding is stressful. I did set up a bridal shower for her though- so I’m not absent from
this process.

Recently, she mentioned that she seated me with “people my age.” I asked to see the seating chart and found out that, aside from my boyfriend, everyone else at my table is a complete stranger to me (besides 1 who is a distant cousin) I’m not seated with the other bridesmaids, my mom’s side of the family, my dad’s side of the family, or even extended relatives that I know.

I told her it hurt my feelings because I honestly expected to be seated with family or at least people I knew. She said it was difficult because there were so many personalities to balance and that I’d only be sitting there for a short portion of the reception anyway. I just said okay because there’s not much that can be changed this close to the wedding.

Part of me feels hurt and slighted, especially because I’m her sister and a bridesmaid. Another part of me wonders if I’m taking this too personally and if she was simply trying to make the seating chart work.

AITA for being upset about this, or should I just let it go?

EDIT: To clarify I guess my question is - is it worth brining up again that it hurt my feelings. I don’t want to make it about me and I really have not. But I also don’t want the hurt to get in the way of our relationship. If I did bring it up it would be after when she’s settled more.

EDIT 2: thank you everybody for your responses, you gave me a lot to think about. My plan is to just get in service now be useful to her and help her out. I’m not gonna say anything else before the wedding. If I still feel this way after the wedding, I’ll mention it to her because I do love her and I don’t want to let a resentment brew. I also won’t forget this in future interactions because it seems like maybe we’re not as close as I thought which makes me sad :/
Maybe after the wedding, she’ll give me some more clarion why she chose to do the seating that way, maybe you guys are right and she just wants me to help it not be so awkward for people. But again, I don’t understand why she would put the other bridesmaids together.