Would a wealthy woman marry a middle class guy?
I'm a guy from a middle class family, and I've always wanted to become rich and move into the upper class. Not because I want a luxurious or materialistic life, but because I want a certain level of dignity and security for my family. I don't care about myself I'm even ready to live homeless.
I've seen things that really affected me. There are many incidents for example, my mom being scolded by a nurse at a government hospital in front of everyone, having to depend on crowded buses for everyday travel, I have seen women being harassed while travelling.
Now I don't want my future wife or kids to face this kind of situation. These experiences made me think that when I eventually get married, I want my wife and kids to have a better and more comfortable life. Because of that, I've always told myself that I should only get married once I'm financially stable. The problem is that I'm getting older, and I still haven't achieved a stable income. My family and people around me are starting to worry about my marriage.
Recently, one of my friends suggested something that never popped into my mind, marrying a financially well off woman. Basically, finding someone who is wealthy enough to live a respectful and comfortable life, they don't have to give me a comfortable life, hope you understand.
But honestly, something in me feels like that wouldn't work. So I'm curious about people who have actually experienced this. Have any of you married someone who was significantly wealthier than you? How did it work out? Did the difference in wealth create problems in the relationship or with the families?
And realistically, would a wealthy woman and her family even consider marrying a middle-class man?
I'm not asking because I expect someone to solve my financial problems through marriage. I'm genuinely trying to understand whether this is something worth considering or whether I should just focus on building my own financial stability first.