u/AwayWin3048

hi, my partner and I have two children (age 5 and 1), and we aren’t seeing eye to eye on how to manage some of the logistics of having two.

my partner takes the eldest to all his clubs at the weekend, and ive asked if we can go back to alternating weeks as we used to do before we had two kids. he is refusing to let me do this.

ive also asked if I can take the eldest away for a night during the summer, and he got very upset by the suggestion (apparently it’s not normal for one parent to do a trip with just one child - for clarity I’m only suggesting this as it’s not easy to do some trips with a 1 year old)

im at a loss as to what to do here, any advice much appreciated.