Married individuals
I am just wondering how you deal with disagreements in your marriages. My issue is, I’m (34,M) married to my wife (30,F) for four years. I acknowledge that I’m far from perfect and in every disagreement, I always leave a gap for corrections even though it may seem like I am obviously correct a few times. The problem is umfazi wami appears to have primed herself to believe that I’m always wrong, belittles my opinions and to her I’m a cartoon villain. To some extent it seems like she totally despises me and has never stated why. When we talk about an issue and appear to have solved it, it always comes back days, months and even years later in the most disrespectful and unprovoked manner to the extent that it feels she has a deep seated resentment against me and the problem is, I do not know what i did to her.
My main question is, how best do you negotiate with someone who knows everything and is always correct? Second is, is it just me or these issues are there in marriage?